lately i have been attracted to and attracting men which i consider to be not very bright?

Question

that wasnt the case before. what does that say about me?

Answer 1

It could be one of several things.
1) Maybe you just got out of a bad relation with an intelligent guy who may have seemed a little pompus.
2) Maybe slightly less then intielligent men remind you of a positve male role model in your life (i.e., father, favorite uncle, etc.)
3) Maybe you've recently discovered that your attracted to a man who is learning new things from you.

No matter what this says about you, I wouldn't worry about. Just remember never to underestimate the intelligence of another individual. You just might be surprised as to what you might learn. :)

Answer 2

I can relate to you very well.

The most important thing is not about what it says about you but what you think is important to you in a person? It could be that not so bright people have more edge in terms of the way they show affection and their being down to earth. You may be a person who likes to be on the average scale because too much brilliance could bore your senses.

We have many ideals in life but you will just be surprised when you end up with someone so different. How come?

Examine yourself again and accept that there is no perfection in this world. If you ask me, I would value someone's character more than his being bright. Intelligence does not guarantee a successful relationship. Some intelligent guys even end up to be idiots when in a relationship.

Get real!

Answer 3

I think you already know the answer to this question of yours. If you get serious about a man like this, then ask yourself this question, do I want to date a boy or do I want to date a man? If your confusing maturity with brightness then that is even worse. Nothing is worse than a man with no responsibility or goals. This is your path and you have hit a crossroad now you must decide and you already know the truths. The answer is as plain as the nose on your face.

Answer 4

It says you have a soft spot for the underdog or the men that are not necessarily the smartest but maybe the sweetest. It says that you have a kind heart and you have not narrowed your interest down to a particular kind of man. You are able to look at the big picture and look beyond what you thought acceptable before. It's all good!

Answer 5

I'm a little lost.. it's A you've been liking girls and you find yourself attracted to guys it's just that your expanding your views.. it's in the learning experince of knowing what you like just let it flow.. and act natural with it see where it takes you

now if you are one of those girls who fouces and just don't have time.. girl it's about time you give yourself a break and go out there and see what life and dating is all about it's ok to be fouced and doing what you do.. if you think you can have time to date..

Answer 6

That seems to be a common phase for girls - they tend to think that the smart/nice/etc. guys are boring and want the drama of a "bad boy" who is more often than not, as you say, "not very bright".

When the time comes, you'll know what you want.

Answer 7

If you are self aware enough to think that they aren't so bright, you probably are smarter. I don't know why though, evaluate whatever changes you have made recently and see what you did to start the change (clothes, location, attitude, accesories, etc...) Change things if you want to attract the smart ones again.

Answer 8

usually we do not comprehend their age, so what it truly is about "youthful girls" is totally not the project. for sure youthful seems healthful and that is eye-catching. The concept of perverted is at the same time as the lady is too youthful or unlawful. it would also stand that if adult males who're attracted youthful girls are perverts, then women who're drawn to youthful adult males are perverts. it would also hence stand to reason that for each relationship, a minimum of between the couple is a pervert.

Answer 9

I think a little flirting keeps things healthly. I always say it doesn't matter were you get your appetiite as long as you eat at home. And we both come home looking forward to private time together!!

Answer 10

This doesn't mean anything. There's just lots of stupid ones out there and very little qualified ones. Like this saying: "You have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding your prince."