Talk to him! Let him know that he's wanted. If you keep talking to him and get him to interact with you, he will eventually lose his shyness. That's the way! Good luck!
2006-12-14 14:46:11
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answered by anonymous 7
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OK not a lady so can't answer from that point of view but I have been a shy guy in the past so I can relate some personal experiences that helped me feel more comfortable around those special ladies who took an interest in me. One thing you can do is talk to him like you would a good friend or someone you feel close to, if you open up with a shy guy we are pretty sensitive and appreciate openness between friends or that special someone. Second of all I would suggest inviting him to go do something fun but not really dating at first so that he can let down his shy defenses. If you know his hobbies or taste in restaurants that helps to set up such an evening or day date. Third thing I would do is share your interests but encourage him to talk about things he enjoys by saying something like..i just completed a photography project for my art class would you like to see it? maybe at this point he would say wow your into photography I've always thought about trying that out myself..or hey I've taken that class too..ect.
Last thing I will say is just be yourself, and don't be afraid if a moment to reach for his hand or if it looks like he wants to hold yours to just reach out and grab his first. hey its the new millennium ladies can make some moves first and still both keep your dignity. Well this is just one shy guys advice. Good luck to you!!
2006-12-14 22:54:08
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answered by Jack W 1
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If the guy you like is shy, then obviuosly you have to talk to him but you also have to make him feel comfortable talking to you as well. I myself am a shy guy and I feel comfortable when I'm talking to someone thats really easy going and friendly. For example, shy guys hate it when people say 'hey, you're so shy! why dont you talk more!' because it makes us feel intimidated because we know we're like that. A better way to talk to this guy would be something simple like just say 'Hi (insert name here), hows it going?' or maybe not exactly that but just small talk. As for getting him to notice you and your prettiness lol if you talk to him, be friendly and make him feel comfortable around you, he will soon comment on how you look because a wise man once told me that the more you get to know a girl and her personality, the more attractive she becomes.
2006-12-14 23:02:03
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answered by Anonymous
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If he's she you want to tone down the impression and go for friendly and do so when less people are you. Get him the idea that you are approachable.
Making yourself more attractive might make him more shy.
2006-12-16 22:28:17
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answered by rostov 5
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If you don't know each other that's why he's shy, Ask him out instead of him asking you, I think it would make it easier on him. I used to be shy and I made myself do things to get more confidence. start talking to him a little bit at a time and see if you can get a little more talking out of him
2006-12-14 23:14:47
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answered by stealth5033 3
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Be shy towards him. Hopefully this will allow him to think "hey, she's shyer than me, now I won't feel so intimidated." And maybe he'll start opening up and you can help him with that along the way.
2006-12-14 22:58:44
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answered by Generic Name 2
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Talk to him. Make him feel loved!
2006-12-14 22:44:13
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answered by Buttload 2
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you gotta talk to him and make him un shy
2006-12-14 22:45:12
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answered by Anonymous
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talk to him more. be yourself also. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-14 22:51:37
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answered by Joho 7
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just be your self and go up to him and talk to him....and compliment him and for sho he well compliment you back...=)
2006-12-14 22:47:35
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answered by Kikkis 2
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