sorry this might be long but...
im in 10 grade and i like this girl alot and its something where i actually think about her and stuff...and i want to get her to be more interested in me so i asked her if she would like to go see a movie or go to the mall to just hang out the 2 of us...
and she said she doesnt know she will have to see what shes doing and shes said this before when ive asked her if she wanted to do something before...and i know i cant make her like me but at times it seems like she was interested in me and at other times it doesnt
buit i was wonderin if i go up to her tomorow and ask "do u still want to go to the mall with me this weekend" and if she starts to to say no i would say "i will understand if you dont want to do something, you can be honest"...i was wondering if thats stupid to say
thank you
2006-12-14 14:26:12 · 13 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you shouldn't act too persistant, but if you do want to get your point across, you should sound firm, but gentle. like, say, "i asked you if you wanted to go to the mall with me and you haven't given me your answer yet, so if you don't want to, tell me now and i'll ask someone else." or try playing hard to get. like date another girl or something. if that doesn't work and she doesn't notice you, move on. she isn't worth it if she doesn't pay any attention to you.
2006-12-14 14:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Curious Cat Solemn Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can only really applaud u for being so honest lots of hurls like that but u know what they say "you could always add some honey to attract the bear." try to talk 2 her more b4 u ask her again and wait r u guys friends cause u could make it into a group activity but then in the middle u could causally( remember casual) whisper something sexy into her ear... then at the end ask her 2 go out wit u and only u ( remember 2 only do the last part if she responds positively to teh whisper ing part)
2006-12-14 22:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Lollie ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I totally had the same problem.......ok well um nevermind that is a great idea that is what i did he said "yea sure" so we are going out YAY! but um back to your problem, girls like me can be really shy.........maybe she does maybe she doesn't i say go for it ask her if she still wants to and if she starts to say no say you'll understand and stuff like that, that is not stupid!
2006-12-14 22:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it shows strength. Just dont be a panzy about it. Ask her nicely, then if she starts the same routine stop her in mid sentence and tell her to quit the game, be mature and just say no.
2006-12-14 22:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by CHAD K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may very well be that her parents do not allow her to date and she is giving you that excuse. If you do go to the mall get her to take you into Victoria's It is so much fun.
2006-12-14 22:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not stupid at all. Just don't make a big deal out of it one way or the other.
2006-12-14 22:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the hint - she likes you to ahng out at school with and thats it. quit pining over her. girls are crazy - if you start paying attention to someone else, this one will probably start to want you, so go on about your business and drop this chick.
2006-12-14 22:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could do tht but it seems like you want her to feel sorry for youo so she does go with you. you make it sound as though you get rejected a lot...
2006-12-14 22:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by lalalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if she cant be honest with you then you dont need her in the first place. take care and good luck happy holidays.
2006-12-14 22:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does that she not very interested but she maybe feeling sorry for u that ur always non-date-able
2006-12-14 22:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋