We've been seeing eachother for about 6months, and enjoy our time together! "The kicker"...him and his ex-girlfriend we're dating on and off for about 5years and when he and I met they hadn't spoken to eachother in about a month(so the story goes). In the mist of our evolving friendship, he decided to let his ex know that they were done with eachother for good! He mention to me that he had been thinking about it for a long time, but was afraid that he wouldn't meet anyone else (for lack of a better word) better or better suited for him! We are both in our mid 20's, career orriented, driven, encouraging, and uplifting! We pray together , laugh together, workout together, just all out enjoy time with eachother!I know he cares for me, but when it comes to certain things regarding ex loves he refusing to discuss them for the most part! He keeps things to the bare minium & I feel it makes it harder for me to truely get to know him! We aren't perfect by any means, &have had our ups &downs!
2006-12-14 14:04:34 · 9 answers · asked by paris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try some fun things like crossdressing him. Use make up and everything it can be a lot of fun and might open new fun in your sex life.
2006-12-14 14:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kudos to you for having the courage to embark in the relationship that you have now. anyway, to be perfectly honest, rebound relationships never really works. it rarely does and goodluck on that. if you really love him and willing to let go of his past, then march on. maybe the reason why he hasn't told you about his ex or their time together could be a. he has not gotten over her; b. has been too hurt by the circumstance on why they broke up; c. he thinks that is not a big deal since it just part of his past or d. he thinks that you might get threatened or will just cause unnecessary rift between you two. anyway, if you are keen on getting to know him better, don't pressure him and let him tell you-and he will when he is ready. just be patient and everything will work out for the best as well. but be wary too. don't give yourself high expectations, he did tell you that he is on the rebound in the first place, so there are no guarantees as well. anyway, goodluck and godbless!
2006-12-14 22:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Acidburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because right now "ex loves" are nunya...none of your business.
It sounds as if time will tell with this one. Sometimes you need a clean break from a previous relationship. That happened to me after dating the same girl for about 5 (too long ) years.
Just enjoy the time you have together. No sense in complicating a good thing.
Good luck to both of you.
2006-12-14 22:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no way of knowing how your relationship will go, or if it will last. On the rebound romances means that he can decide to go back to her, then you'll be hurt. Apparently, he likes being with you, or he wouldn't have stuck around for six months, so just relax and enjoy him.
2006-12-14 22:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by ladyravenwing2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually rebound relationships don't work, but if you go in with that attitude, it definitely won't work! So have fun, don't dwell on the exes and just maybe you two will be the "unusual" ones who make it! Good luck!
2006-12-14 22:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Ella S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he isnt willing to talk to you about anything, then he isnt falling as hard for you as youre thinking. just beware....you dont want to get your heart broken. take care and good luck. happy holidays.
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2006-12-14 22:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years he went with this girl and didn't marry her? Don't worry about it. They were just growing up.
2006-12-14 22:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a solid start ..
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