My little sister just started going out with this guy. I met him a couple of days ago, but my parents havn't met him yet (she doesn't want them to) He doesn't seem like the best person for her, or the best person for anyone. What should I do?
2006-12-14 13:38:14 · 30 answers · asked by ohschnap00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your parents because if it turns out this guy is a creepo you will feel bad you didnt at least i did with my little sister
2006-12-14 13:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mark F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't like him, it is probably best to be really close with your sister so that she can tell you things. Once you find out something that isn't acceptable it might be a good idea to tell your parents. Just don't make her scared to tell you about him, or she will hide anything bad he does.
2006-12-14 13:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce him to the parents lol, that should take care of it.
Or you could casually whisper into his ear "you know, you aren't that well liked around here, you wouldn't be missed much" and smile sweetly. He'll get the drift lol.
Seriously, tell your sister as lovingly as you can that this man isn't good enough for her.
2006-12-14 14:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take in to account what it is you don't like about him. If he just seems like a dead beat or something similiar, it may be in your best interest to let it be, maybe she sees things in him that you don't. On the other hand, if he's showing violent tendancies, or is into things that could get your sister into trouble (this kinda depends on how old she is...) you may want to step in and either talk to her, or talk to your parents about it.
2006-12-14 13:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Vickie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister's have a bound like no other.. You need to sit down with her & explain to her why you feel this way....
She will probably have to learn the hard way.. But just let her no you love her & you will be there for her no matter what.."THAT'S WHAT BIG SISTERS ARE FOR"
2006-12-15 03:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by ahg30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what u think, but dnt push the issue..after all it is her life, and shes gunna b with him,even if you all insist she doesn't... Just sit down with her and straight up tell her
" (sis's name)...i think u can do better than the guy your dating now, however its your life and im not going to push anything upon you(to leave him)... i just want to see you happy and such...however i think there is someone much better out there for u!...if ever u need to talk i want you 2 know that i am here for you and nothing u tell me will get back to mom and dad(unless he has physically hurt u in any way!)"
ley her talk and tell her no matter what she choses u will b happy for her!
DONT MENTION NOTHING TO YOUR PARENTS..KEEP IT BETWEEN UR SIS AND U!!!!AND REMEMBER SHES GUNNA DO IT EVEN IF U SAY NO...SO JUST BE HAPPY FOR U...HE MIGHT NOT BE WHAT U THINK HE IS!
merry christmas!
2006-12-14 14:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay close with your sister. And if something comes up, that she's not sure about, she'll tell you. Then you can fix it! If not, and you notice something a little "fishy" when either "them" "him" or "him bringing in her" then act quickly. Talk to her first, and then tell your parents about it.
2006-12-14 14:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by newyorkdreamen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really likes this guy she's not going to listen to you or anyone else. Just let her learn (even if it's hard to keep your mouth shut)and be there for her when her little heart gets broke.
2006-12-14 13:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to her and be honest.
If he is a creep she will see it for herself.
If not you need to protect her, because she is your sister. If that means going to your parents than do it.
Let a few days go by and see how things develop on their own, but if not talk to her than your parents if you have to.
2006-12-14 13:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with others who say talk to her...then if she's not receptive...talk to mom and dad. It's sad she can't see the forest for the trees, and even with your talk, she still may not be able to see that you're just looking out for her best interests...
Be patient. Someday she'll come to her senses.
2006-12-14 13:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋