she is interested in me but she refuses to say what she feels for me I can see it in her eyes with every expression she makes but she still won't give me official I need a sign or else I just might move on and then it would be too late? Help
2006-12-14 13:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by norman d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHO CARES WHAT SHE SAYS!
Actions speak louder than words.
So many people say they love each other and don't mean it.
If you can see love in her eyes why do you need verbal confirmation?
2006-12-14 13:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,my friend,she is a girl, of course she will be a little shy, how does she know that if you like her or not? Why do you wait for her sign? If you really like her, just express your love to her without any delay, you are a man, take actions right now,otherwise you will never forgive yourself if you lose this opportunity.
2006-12-14 21:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by smarttany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gah... alright, first of all.. chill.. Do NOT deal in extremes when it comes to dating and especially with women if you have any intention of getting together with them... they have no hesitation in running away if they feel uncomfortable...
Second of all, yeah you like her... alot... BUT, you have INTEREST in her for more that you are acting on. Keep cool. Do things with her. Share your time and activities with her. MAKE A RELATIONSHIP.... and THEN be in love... until you got something "official" from her about her feelings, just be cool, let her know you are INTERESTED... Love with either come in time OR it doesn't... in which case now "disinterested" parties can just move on...
The reason why... interested means your testing the waters, which gives her a chance to test the waters. If you go into things with "love" on the brain, you don't give her much of a chance to decide what she wants with you (whether it be love or just a fleeting interest). Not to mention, you can be interested in girls, get turned down and the most you'd really end up is disappointed... what happens when you love a girl and she turns you down? broken heart. tears. /wrists
Don't worry about being in love with her... worry about whether or not you two are compatible and can build upon your interests. See if you guys have sparks... EXPLORE... don't conquer :P Explore and you make friends, build relationships and more... Conquer and your just forcing your way (and feelings) upon her with a "Club her and throw her over your shoulder" way of thinking.
Also remember that we develop love not when we see someone, but afterwards when we thinking about them, so pace yourselves... give things time to grow, leaving a little mystery... see if you have sparks, common interests and shared dreams... You'll grow closer in time and not have to worry about the silly stupid drama of rushing into things...
2006-12-14 21:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by guardian707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT MOVE ON WHAT EVER YOU DO. just talk to her and become really good friends with her. maybe she is not ready. Dont move on because if she does really have feeling for you and she is scared to tell you and you move on she will feel really upset and I really hate it when girls cry.
So just keep on keepin' on man
you'll get through this
good luck
2006-12-14 21:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! my name is sandy
first of all does she knows you like her? if not then
you should let her now, strait out that you like her ? or give her some clues like example ? #1-flirt a little, #2-tell her nice things?
#3-make her feel your intrested in her? etc.
if your just live in it up to her well i think she mite be she to ask or tell a guy that she likes him or wants to go out with him? that's not right for a girl to make that Kane of move then what will guys think that she mite be just a hor??? little b???? you now.
2006-12-14 22:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she likes you. she's just shy. Show your love by giving a present for the holidays but with no immature bullies around or with people she's dumped. Just to add if she dumped somebody don't go for it, I MEAN IT! It'll just lead to a broken heart.
2006-12-14 21:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you know you love her or you dont.
Dont lie to yourself just bcoz your hormones are reacting to her looks. Good thing are mostly hard to catch. Work on her! Dont be a chicken! cluck!! cluck!!! cluck!!!!
You gonna get your answer when you dont make a move and someone else does.
2006-12-14 21:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Nile Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls are scared to express there feelings because they dont want to get there heart broken, but i would say that you should try to make her jelouse because that way if she really likes you she will go for it and you will know for sure
2006-12-14 21:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Carlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make a move on her, dont wait for her 2 make a move on u
2006-12-14 21:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are all ways question like this like every one tells you just aske her out, ask her out over and over again. you should ask her out of it will be to late. get it over with.
2006-12-14 21:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋