okay so..i need opinons..my boyfriend broke up with me on friday..and then we didnt talk until tuesday when he begged me to have a talk with him..he told me he cares about me and wants to be friends and everything and that was that. but then he started calling me, asking me if i wanted to hang out, and when i couldnt he asked if i wanted to for another day..hes been calling me, and we talked on the phone for a while and he said ill deffinetly call you later. today when i saw him he grabbed my hand before he said bye. are these signs he wants to get back together or is this just friend stuff?
2006-12-14 13:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY! guess what! we got back together =) im ESTATIC but since he broke my heart before, im proceeding with caution..
2006-12-17 10:17:21 · update #1
Ask him what he wants from you. If he says he just wants to be friends and all of the stuff he's doing is bothering you, tell him you're not ready to be so chummy with him just yet.
2006-12-14 13:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think one thing we can say for certain is that he is sending mixed signals. And, when someone is sending mixed signals, it's usually because he/she is a little mixed up. The problem here is that you happen to be along for the ride. And, if he is the one that broke up with you, then you likely still have feelings for him; which is logical. So, it is going to be extremely easy for you go board this roller coaster with him. But you gotta remember, you can love him to death, but it does not mean he's a good match for you. If you can handle it, you can try and stay friends while he figures this out. But if you can't (and most people wouldn't be able to), tell him the truth, tell him you want to be friends, but you can't see him for a while because you need to give yourself some time to heal. If he may open up to you, but he may not. Sounds like you must be a pretty special person. Just remember.... there are reasons why we meet the people we do in this lifetime...we are all here to teach each other something... it's just that sometimes we need to get close in order to do it, but that does not meant that we are meant to fall in love. Clear as mud?
2006-12-14 13:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience, and also seeing two of my friends go through this, let me tell you what "could" be going on. To understand it better, here is what happened to me and them.
My ex and I were together for two years, then he all of a sudden broke up with me. Then he kept calling me and wanting to see me, and never officially asked me to get back with him. He just sort of pushed his way back into my life. But not everyday did I see him. Maybe every other day. Why? Because he was seeing someone else that he thought was hot, but of course he still loved me, but he didnt want to "actually" be with me because that would be "cheating", anyway, to make it clear to you, he's keeping you close just in case things dont work out with her, and also because he still loves you or likes you. He wants his cake and wants to eat it too. Keep your eyes open for any suspicious behavior okay, and like many of women find is usually bad, but who knows , you may be one of the lucky ones.
2006-12-14 13:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He kinda comes off as desperate. Most times it is awkward when you break up, but seeing that he wants to hang out with you then that must mean that might have regretted breaking up with you. Or, he might feel like he hurt you and he really does want to be friends with you. My advise to you: Be friendly and give it some time to see if he really does want to get back with you.
2006-12-14 13:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow it sounds like he really does know what he wants!!!! To me those are signs that he wants a special friend but no relationship. U need to talk to him and find out what he is really looking for.
2006-12-14 13:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by pecarican 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty strong signals there telling that he wants to be more than a friend, but he doesn't want to say "I learned my lesson, lets be girlfriend/boyfriend again", more than likely he wants to give a relationship with you another shot.
2006-12-14 13:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 07:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by graviett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get back together with you, but he's embarresed that he broke up with you. He didn't realize the mistake.
2006-12-14 13:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He beatin around da bush(he confused about bein n a relationship or not).
2006-12-14 13:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by aria19_lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first glance it seems that he sees that he may have made a mistake. he wants to get back with you. ask him about it.
2006-12-14 13:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋