It's his final week and he's real busy. So he just turned off his phone and didn't talk to me for 2 days. I was a little mad especially after he told me he went to a secret santa party last night and is so tired now. When i confronted him about this, his explanation is he went to that party at 3 am he figured i would be sleeping. And that he didn't forget about me, he just didn't call me because he's busy. But couldn't he have called me saying he's real busy we are not gonna talk long or something like that. He had to play this all of a sudden disappering game. Especially i asked a friend of his to tell him to call me, he knew i was expecting it yet he still didnt call saying it was too late i would be sleeping. So is this "i dont forget about you when i am busy, i just dont call" thing a believable excuse?
2006-12-14 13:24:24 · 3 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand this about guys either. Yes, it is finals week and things are crazy for both of you, but if he knows you want him to call you and he doesn't, that's just rude. Guys don't get it sometimes.
2006-12-14 13:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by dmfan8604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is. i'm in an L.D.R. (long distant relationship) right now, and i haven't seen my guy for 4 months. sometimes we aren't able to talk for a week or two weeks at a time. but i survive. God knows how i survive, but i do. actually, wait, God does know how i survive---it's my love for my boyfriend that keeps me going and able to stand the toughness of not seeing or talking to him for long periods of time. you shouldn't get angry at him for something like this. my guy does this sometimes, and i don't get mad. and a party at 3 am, are you seriously going to wanna be woken up at that time. give him break---he was tired! let the poor guy have some fun, since he's been busy! he doesn't have to spend every waking moment with you! my guy and i obviously don't spend every waking moment together---you can stand to not have your boyfriend call you for 2 days. trust me---you will live. you might starve alot from lack of not hearing his voice for 24/7, but you'll live. so yes, it is a beleivable excuse. take a chill pill! put yourself in his place!---c***st's sake!
2006-12-14 13:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by K.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn .. i wish i had a good answer for this but i dont really.. but i do hate when guys are all clueless to why there girl is mad, like they r dumb or something...
2006-12-14 13:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by lola b. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋