My Fiance broke things of on thanksgiving but said he wanted to work on it on Monday he broke things off for good. He called this morning and I told him how this guy I was talking with tried to force himself on me and how I was scared.... He keeps asking all these questions about it.... He did get upset. I want him back so bad that it kills me. He is supposed to call tonight what do I say to him? (he is in TX training for the military and I am in SC)
2006-12-14 13:18:33 · 7 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you are going through hell right now, but maintain your dignity-give him some space.
I HAVE found in the past when you become indifferent and move on, thats when they seem to want you.
2006-12-14 13:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is going to be upset about it. He still cares about you. I'm sure he feels guilty for not being around to protect you. But that doesn't mean he wants you back.
i was in TX for military training too three years ago. I was at Ft Sam doing the 91W combat medic school. So i know what all goes on down there. Honestly it's probably better that you guys are broken up. He was probably trying to do the right thing by you. AIT at Ft. Sam or any of the other surrounding Air Force bases is pretty much like spring break, except for way longer, and on the weekends-everyone goes wild. People usually got hotel rooms on weekends when we were finally allowed out overnight. I know its hard to believe, but there is some serious partying going on down there. Its best to be single while you're out there. Right now he is exposed to so many things-lots of partying and girls. It gets pretty bad. I hate to be the one to tell you. So many people I went to school with I either knew or heard about how they cheated on their gf/fiance/wife back home. So many. I was in school with about 400 other people. Pretty much it seemed like everyone slept with someone, or several people, no matter who you were, or where you came from. Just think about the environment he is in right now.
You need to start trying to get over him now. Seriously. There's no gaurantee that your relationship will work, even tho you were once engaged. In other words, prepare for the worst. That way if it does go downhill, you'll be ready. Good luck and I wish you the best.
2006-12-14 16:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is be careful, all the feelings he had for you are still fresh so naturally he cares greatly that this terrible thing almost happened to you, yet don't confuse that with his feelings for you. he broke off an engagement that is big! You need to find out what went wrong, men are naturally chivalrous so it's second nature to want to save/protect you, I don't think that you should play on that to get him back, because it won't solve the true problem-reason that caused him to break it off in the 1st place!
2006-12-14 13:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him on the phone that you want to meet up and talk about the problems. meet him (not on the phone) over dinner and find out why does he broke things off. Work it out from there whether this guy truly deserve you and you can be happy w him for the rest of ur life
2006-12-14 13:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to talk to him, which at this point you probably shouldn't even if you do, don't answer your phone or check the caller ID and don't pick it up when it's him
2006-12-14 13:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by bubblepup13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him...tell him what you are feeling.
2006-12-14 13:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was supposed to call? poor guy
2006-12-14 13:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋