my bf broke up with me about a month and a half ago...because he said we "fought too much" we fought because he wouldnt make time to be alone with me. we were with his friends 24/7 i wouldnt see him every day and when i didnt he would be with them and when i DID we would still be with him. I was with him for almost 3 YEARS and he met his friends THE LAST year we were together. so it's not like they were friends before we got together.
i just saw him last week and he said he wanted to try to be friends with me, would make time to see me, and didnt want to hurt me. said he wasnt seeing anyone, hasnt messed around with anyone. but today i found out hes in a ******* relationship already. apparently he was lying about everything he said. and i dont deserve it when i gave him the best i could give with everything. no we never had sex. thank you! he wanted to wait just like i did. we both have great morals. but now hes with a stupid whore who is practically naked on her damn website.
2006-12-14 13:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
**what can i do to get him back and to show that he really ****** up on this one. i know i would take him back because i still love the bastard. but it's impossible that he would take ME back. therefor since its the last time im going to see him i want to give him a piece of my mind! ****** asshole! any ideas people?!?!?!?!**
greatly appreciated
2006-12-14 13:08:01 · update #1
apparently hes not the man i dated for almost three years ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 13:09:44 · update #2
The thing is that HE'S not the same guy anymore so why do you want him back!!!!!? He sounds like an @hole to me also, the fact that he chose his friends over you and then after it's over to lie to you like that, well girl you deserve much better than this man, and even though you wasted three years of your life with him, just be grateful that you found out who he was before it was to late, you still have the rest of your life ahead of you-move on, make yourself available for that a wonderful man who will love to spend time with you and will love and appreciate you!
2006-12-14 13:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I voted for Obama and yes, this is a historical event. But all I can do now is hope that he chooses a good cabinet and that congress will make smart decisions to help turn our nation around. Although he is our leader-to-be, not everything rides on his Presidency. I am just thinking that when he gets inaugurated it's the of an 8 year error.
2016-05-24 07:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess his morals when right out the window didnt they? He doenst want to wait anymore obviously. Move on and dont sweat him or his woman. Find a good man. Better yet stay single for a long time.
2006-12-14 13:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having lived through a very similar experience, I recognize that you are probably extremely hurt, and with that, extremely angry.
In my case my ex was living with someone else within months of her dumping me whilst I was in a coma!
And I certainly empathize with you wanting some form of revenge... two years later I still have fantasies about getting back at my ex.
Don't. You need to adhere to your morals... don't let him strip you of your good self... that's simply giving him more power over you. And he doesn't deserve to have any power over you at all anymore.
People change, and it sounds like his newish group of friends changed him. Same happened with my ex - she found new friends over the year or so prior - and what she became wasn't pretty...
You deserve to spend you time taking care of you - spending time with friends who appreciate you for you... and finding a man who loves you for you. F**k him (not in the fun sense...).
Just blow him off and move on. He doesn't deserve a second more of your time... though fantasies about inflicting great harm on him is perfectly normal...
Move on. I know how hard it is - for me its been two years, and I haven't even dated again - was hurt to bad... don't let him do to you, what my ex did to me...
-dh
2006-12-14 13:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with a guy he knows and just say that u ****** him! it'll b hilarious and then when he finds out u didn't, he'll feel lyk a dumass ************ lol. bsides that ***** needs sum-1 to straighten his ****** up *** up so it mite as well be u. oh and the slut on the website is just a ****** whore who can't get a man unless she strips naked. so don't worry!
2006-12-14 13:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the question? should you be friends with him? well from experience being friends with an ex especially one who you wre with for a long time, is really hard to do and its pretty much as hard as having the relationship so it would probably be easier to not be firends with him especially if hes liked to you about all that he must be a asshole
2006-12-14 13:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty i really do not know your situation but i can imagine you are mad but you have to remember anger is not the only option, its not ethical to do that. Although he hurt you, you should be the better person. it is very hard but maybe just talk to him or give him the guilt trip. It may work
Good luck
2006-12-14 13:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by chaoschilled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT take him back. I had a husband like that and I was miserable to the point I got a divorce.
2006-12-14 13:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to your house and **** him hard, then when your done say if i ever find you with another grl i will never do this again. sex is always the answer
2006-12-14 13:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bobesink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you heard that he is seeing another woman, girl, go find another man.. a better one at that. you are worth more then what he is willing to give you! don't settle for less, demand more!
2006-12-14 13:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by debra_ehu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋