Any similar situations that you've been in or available advice would help, thanks!
2006-12-14 13:03:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Speaking from experience I know that women sometimes get attached to men to quickly and this scares them off. If a guy likes you he will eventually figure it out and come around on his own. Just be his friend, date him, talk to him, and get to know him casually. If he's ready he'll make the first move to take things forward or you can when you're fairly sure the time is right. There's no absolute formula for success but I find that guys run when they have too much pressure put on them and not enough space given.
2006-12-14 13:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-14 21:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk with him and be friendly to him, but don't necessarily make it a goal to be his best friend or that's what you'll always be. This is a way to get to know him too and see if you really want someone like him. If he likes you, he'll probably make the first move..just be around to make it happen.
2006-12-15 20:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should one scares a guy when trying to get to know him? Unless you're borned without a body otherwise nothing should scares a guy away.
2006-12-14 21:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well take a look at my questions and maybe that helps.. But take things slow and find out if you like him first then give him signs u like him and expect the same!
2006-12-14 21:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get to know him... then maybe pursue a realationship... but if worse xomes to worse, well not really, a boyfriend is for a while, a friend is for life!
2006-12-14 21:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang around. Also, men are very visual creatures, so it might help if you occasionaly mirrored his actions (NOT COPY!). If he sees someone simular in movement, it may trigger attraction.
2006-12-14 21:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Zealotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't tell him or act like you love him. I lost my potential soulmate, and I'm paying for it.
Good Luck
2006-12-14 21:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well write him a letter and give it to him, call him if you know his number, Im him if you know his sn, or e-mail him and just talk with him. He might surprise you and like you.
2006-12-14 21:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont smother and dont ask him out right away give it time b his friend and things mite evolve into sumthin else my bf now was my best friend 1st
2006-12-14 21:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋