If i am only 19 and been with 46 men (give or take a few) does that make me a bad person?
2006-12-14 12:59:31 · 5 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i think that is a pretty big number for such a young age but you can do what you want and sew those wild oats but just make sure that you are doing it for the right reasons and not because you feel bad about yourself or for other reasons as well. just be careful is all. good luck
2006-12-14 13:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should slow it down a bit huh? i know your sex life is your own decision, but when u post it up here, i have to give you my bias opinion. Naturally, people will think you're a Ho. Come on, think about it. you're young, and you've already been with 40+ men...i'm assuming you've slept with that many men that is.. Please, consider that you could get anything from these men. Have you gotten yourself checked? Think about AIDS and diseases. Do you have a compulsive behavior to you know..have sex? are you bi-polar? or do u just like doing it?
i won't lie, in this world, everyone is judgemental. And from the way i see it, in the future, if not already, guys will lose respect for you. When you're ready to settle down or something, you may find it hard to because you've made such a premiscuous image for yourself.
Of course, it doesn't make you a bad person though. You can have sex with lots of guys, but still have a genuinely true, caring heart...
2006-12-14 21:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it makes you a bad person or not, but it does show you have some emotional issues. You are still quite young to have had this many partners. It is beyond the fear of commitment. In today's world, there are many deadly diseases and other negative consequences. From your question, you are questioning your behavior. Use this moment to chart a new direction. You need to find professional counseling.
2006-12-14 21:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes apparently you do need help. Having been with lots of men doesn't tell you a bad or good person, it tells you're searching for something and you haven't found it yet. It could be love, fun, adventure, virus, experience, reputation, happiness etc. Whatever that you search in your life, if you haven't found it the way you search it, maybe it's time to change the way you live.
2006-12-14 21:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're number shouldn't make you a good or bad person. It comes down to if you are hurting others in the process. If you are cheating, or with cheaters, that isn't a great decision on your part. Be careful though either way, and make sure you are ready and aware of anything that could result.
2006-12-14 21:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋