My mom is getting married this Saturday... I haven't had a dad in acouple of ears and I don't know if there's a 'Code' to follow... any advice?
2006-12-14 12:56:51 · 8 answers · asked by lindaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Just realize he's going to be as nervous about being a "step-dad" as you are a "step-daughter", get to know each other, and remember he and your mom know what they are talking about when they try and tell you what to do or not to do. Just love and accept him as that one that stole your mom's heart. Good Luck
2006-12-14 13:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, be happy for your Mum. Once she's married, remember that your her first. Spend time with her, as much as you can... It pays off in the future. As for your step-dad, take it easy. Discover who he is day-by-day. Don't rush anything. Live life. (And be happy!)
2006-12-14 13:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by the Optimist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will try to make you happy if he's a good stepfather. Try to understand that things will change, it is all an adjustment but things can work out. Good luck.
2006-12-14 13:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time and try to get involved with his interests/hobbies--get to know him better. Be happy for your mom, and good luck.
2006-12-14 13:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by rab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom tell her your concerns she will understand. My mom passed away and I know its hard seeing your parent with someone else sometimes. Just be yourself and be honest with the both of them. Most of all be true to yourself
2006-12-14 13:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Alyssa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During the service shout"AT last Daddy is marrying mommie."
2006-12-14 13:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by robert m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself an wih your mom luck an hopefully everthing will turnout right
2006-12-14 13:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress you best and wish her and your step father well!
2006-12-14 13:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋