ok so this guy i used to go out with wants 2 talk 2 me about SOMETHING do u think its good or bad?????and should i let him talk to me.....do u think hes gonna ask me out????HELP!!!
2006-12-14 12:48:29 · 24 answers · asked by hailee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who the heck knows what its' about - this isn't the psychic hotline .... of course u should talk to him, it's the only way you'll find out if it's good or bad and for u to stop freaking out
2006-12-14 13:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay honey, they're right--calm down. =) Breathe.
But I do understand how exhilirated you are having a guy you like and now you actually having a conversation with him!!!
Okay okay, so there's this guy you like and now he's about to talk with you about something-- any ideas?! You kinda left out a LOT of details there dear. He might ask you out, that's the best I can come up with! And damn honey, YES!
DO TALK TO HIM!
Why in the world would you let that moment pass? Seize it!
As my mantra goes: "Life is short; YOU NEVER KNOW!"
So, go for it! And see what happens. But be prepared, do not expect or if things dont turn out the way you'd want them to, you'll surely be disappointed. But HEY! It's not the end of the world. There are a lot of other fish in the sea-- back to my mantra, you never know! You never know who...so if he doesn't ask you out or just asked something pretty trivial, then just shrug it off, you're perfectly fine as you are, I'm sure. =) It's either the time's not now, or he's just really a loser not to notice you.
(By the way, a lot of guys are losers. Big ones. Not to mention, insensitive and superficial haha)
BUT
IF and WHEN
things do go your way
and he asks you out--
OMGosh, (kinda play hard to get at first) but eventually,
go. =)
Life's too short to just sit at home and wait.
If there's the opportunity and more importantly, he offered it,
if I were you,
I'll gladly take it. =)
Goodluck, honey!
Let me know what happens if you can ;)
2006-12-14 21:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by meredith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend is in the Navy and he is "bless his heart" so stupid. It was a nice surprise getting a email from him. Since you don't know if it is good or bad stay calm about it. I think that you should let him talk. You never know. That's how I would do it. This other ex of mine IMed me one night on my cell phone and I talked to him for a little while. He was hard to get rid of after I broke up with him. I think I broke his heart. Anyway, I think that you should just talk to him to see what it is that he wants to talk about.
2006-12-14 21:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out what he wants. If he does ask you out and you are not interested then just politely say so.
2006-12-14 20:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way to find out go meet him don't jump the guns let him tell u whats up don't go assuming .
2006-12-14 20:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him talkl 2 u if he wants 2 get back together with u and u dont want 2 turn him down if not go out with him
2006-12-14 20:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him talk if he ask you out tel him how you feel about him and dating again hey he may want to apologize for the wrong he did in your past relationship I've had that happen
y/w
2006-12-14 20:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if he wants to talk to you, then just let him tell whatever he needs to tell you. This proves that you understand him, and you want to hear what he needs to say.
2006-12-14 20:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either talk to him and find out or don't talk to him and just keep wondering!
2006-12-14 20:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by BrookieB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell you, we don't know you, dude, or you alls situation
How can we tell you what he's going to say?
Maybe he just wants to talk to you about this unpredictable weather.
2006-12-14 20:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mamacita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋