Moving to the next level?

Question

I just started dating this amazing guy whom i met online. we have went out a total of 4 times already. been dating almost 2 months half of the time he asked me out. the other time i ask him. this weekend he asked me to go out with him this weekend. i am very excited. the thing is i am not sure how to progress without seeming too eager/slutty/whore. right now we hold hands when we walk. and end the night with a light peck on the lips. we are from cultures that usually dictate moving slowly. and no. i am not complaining. i feel like ive hit the jackpot, hes a gentleman. but how could i move things along physically. no. not sex. as you can tell im new to the dating scene. im 25. he is 35. if that matters. i know he is interested. i think he is just being a gentleman. also, how long should i wait until i ask if things are leading somewhere, and date exclusively? ummm. im not sure if i left anything out. if anyone has advice feel free to either email me directly or post a reply here.

Answer 1

If you're diggin him that much you should find out where his head is so's there's no conflict in regards to how both of you are looking at the relationship. As far as the physical stuff goes, that's your call. You can push it or just let it happen naturally. Find out how he feels first. No, you should'nt rush into it, but, you should'nt be afraid to talk and ask questions in regards to it too. Just be careful and enjoy life. Let it happen........