We were supposed to meet after work, but he got off 35 minutes early, and couldn't wait, had stuff to do.
He said he is still attracted to me, thinks I'm cute, likes getting to see me, bla bla bla...
If he likes seeing me so much, why'd he stand me up?
Is he most likely telling the truth, or just being nice?
2006-12-14 12:14:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he changed his mind and decided he didn't want to go out with you but didn't know how to tell you. He figures he can fib and then wait until you lose interest in him.
A guy like this isn't worth your time worrying about. Just chock it up to his loss and find someone who is into you enough to actually be excited to see you.
2006-12-14 12:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
F*ck, when you get some good answers for this. You want to let me know? I'm going through the same problem. The guy says he likes me a lot, but whenever we go to hang out. He gets called into work? not believable. But back to you... you would have to talk to him and see how believable his excuse is. If you've never had a problem with him before about lying. More than likely he's an honest guy. So you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
2006-12-14 20:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't give him a chance to do it again. Let him know you aren't going to stand for that crap. He could have waited a few more minutes. He didn't have anything planed because if he knew he was getting off early he wouldn't have agreed to meet you. He could have waited.
2006-12-14 20:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by steve 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would he have stuff to do if the original plan was to spend time with you? 35 minutes is no big deal to wait. He's a B-S'er. Dump him.
2006-12-14 20:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Joel C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be OK.dint think too much .Build a good coping thoughts .you have to believe someone if you are good person
Facts
Fair Request
if you dint like it you can tell i dont like it
2006-12-14 20:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by mrbluecherry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he could have at least had the courtesy to call you. he seems rather rude to me. He may still like you, but obviously you're not that important to him if you had a date and he blew you off without even calling.
i'd be careful with this one
2006-12-14 20:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did he tell you he couldn't make it? If so, he canceled, he didn't stand you up. Maybe something did come up. Try again. If you get the same result, you have your answer.
2006-12-14 20:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Helmet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a jerk! A jerk who ditched out of work early and then ditched you. Step aside and let him slide on by.
2006-12-14 20:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he really liked you, he could have waited, it was only 35 minutes.
2006-12-14 20:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by a heart so big 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he cant wait 35 mins to see you...why would you ever want to wait for him...in my opion move on...he had his chance
2006-12-14 20:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋