jk..lol. Anyways, I've been talking to this girl online. I've only talk to her very little online. I'm wondering is it better to ask if i can meet her at school or just go ahead and meet her? The reason i was thinking about asking her was because that way i could easily tell if she was interested or not by her reponse. Or do you think its better to just go ahead talk to her, and try and tell if she is interested by the way she responds to me, i don't intend on asking if she is interested i rather do it the other way.
2006-12-14 12:13:28 · 10 answers · asked by Daniel C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should follow ur heart
ReeRee
2006-12-14 12:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, an intriguing challenge...
Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but it seems to me that you hardly know her enough for either of you to have "real" feelings for each other. Heck, you don't even know if she actually is a girl. Why, we don't even know whether you're female or male or somewhere in between, seeing as this is the Internet and all.
That said, there's no danger in trying to meet her in a public place like school, and if you think you might become friends (or better, but don't count on it), that's not a bad idea at all. I'm emphasizing the word "public" here because of the risk of predators/identity theives and such -- you can never be too careful. Good luck in building some sort of relationship...
2006-12-14 20:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by lenoxus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it's OK to ask to meet. But, if you want to make her comfortable, make the meeting place public and safe. I'd try it this, way. "Look, I really enjoy chatting with you and would like to meet in a safe way. If you're not comfortable yet, let me know, but if you are interested, lets meet in a food court at a mall, or a coffee shop. If things in person don't go so well, we can go back to being internet friends or just go our own way"
Faint heart never won a fair lady. Unless you're a stalker, then ignore this. Good Luck.
2006-12-14 20:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. Just set up a face-to-face meeting.
One meeting is not going to tell you whether the interest is there for the right reasons (unless it's a VERY long meeting).
2006-12-14 20:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you've only talked to her alittle while i think you should wait alittle more till you two get to know each other better and have confidence in each other. while you guys talk try to figure it out from her words. after a while get her phone number, call her and talk. then you can meet her. or at least thats what i would do. lol
2006-12-14 20:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by CubanCutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, hey i think your really great, and i really want to meet you, is that ok? and if she says oh idk, then say ok, then maybe later. but if she says yea sure!! then go ahead kid. Good luck, if you need anymore advice, hit me up! lol,
-Carrie
2006-12-14 20:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by cooltmb08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER... cuz when u just talk on line its soo weird... i broke up with my bf becaus he didnt talkt o me at schooL!!!
2006-12-14 20:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever works best for you and comfortable to you.
2006-12-14 20:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so i thought this was an exciting question but its boring mate...
2006-12-14 20:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont get ur question
2006-12-14 20:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by calilove143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋