So, ya I'm in a church choir, and the drummer is SOOOOOO hot! He used to go to my school, and he's a year older than me. Last year he used to date a girl named Dominique, but they broke up at the end of the year. At choir, I'll catch him looking at me sometimes, but then he'll look away really quickly... He seems to act really shy around me, which he normally isn't.
Could he like me? Cause I do! And if he does... should I ask him out or wair till he asks me out?
2006-12-14 12:09:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have a friend of yours ask a friend of his. safest way to know for sure!
2006-12-14 12:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel. Signs you see him giving out somewhat gives you the feeling he likes you, and I'm sure you could be right. Though you'll never find out if he truly likes you unless it comes out of his mouth.
You could either ask him, or just tell him how you feel. If I was in your position, I'd tell him how I'd feel. The worst he could do is say he doesn't feel the same. Not everyone is going to like the person that likes them, so if he says that, you have to find a way to get over him. Over time, you will get over him.
I know I had one guy that did the same thing, but I already knew he didn't like me. But I feel like it's completely different in your situation.
2006-12-14 20:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by lvbs793 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, but be cool. See if he'd like to go for a sundae after choir practice. If he's relaxed, rub his groi... OOps. Sorry.
2006-12-14 20:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to him causally at first, then maybe he'll relise that you do like him. Then he might ask you out. And unless you're right in his line of vision there has to be some reason he's lookin at you ^_^ I think he likes you.
2006-12-14 20:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by dragon_girl441 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like he might like you! you dont HAVE to ask him out, but maybe suggesting a movie or grabbing a bite to eat after church choir practice could work. just let him know your interested! =) good luck!
2006-12-14 20:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by one&only<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what u can do it ask him if u does like u cause it seems to me that he does maybe u ask him out and he what he says i think he would say yeah cause u guys know each other for a long time
2006-12-14 20:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a friend's opinion
if he is looking at you, but then quickly glances away, yeah he probably like you.
about the asking out thing give it time
2006-12-14 20:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by memyselfmyshadowandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT!!! if you dont make the first move, then he'll never know that you like him and since he's obviously shy, he probably wont be the one making the first move. so go ahead and ask him out!
2006-12-14 20:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by VOLLEYBALLA913 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to him and find out. Just be slow and subtle about it. There is no rule that says you can't ask to meet him, somewhere and have a soda or milkshake.
2006-12-14 20:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first DONT ASK HIM OUT!!! thats not classy or polite but give him hints tell one of your best friends in the choir and tell them to try to set u to up and for ur friend to ask him if he would ever date u if yes tell ur friend to tell him if he was to ask u out thet u would say yes and most likly he will ask u out but if he says no hunny theres plany other fish in the sea :)
2006-12-14 20:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
w8 let him approach u. if he lyks u he'll eventually crack n tell u but mayb u can get a nother member of the group 2 ask him good luck
2006-12-14 20:11:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋