whenever me & my boyfriend go out I catch him smiling& checking out other girls looking up and down at them. we have been dating almost 2 years and we fight about it. At basketball games he looks at the cheerleaders more than the game? Am I overreacting &what should I do about it? It hurts my feelings and makes me think he doesn't find me attractive anymore. He gets really mad and says I am over jealous when i try to talk about it. Please help! He says it is normal and okay as long as he doesn't cheat. He thinks that he is doing nothing wrong.
2006-12-14 12:06:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like he is your boyfriend. Are you sure he just isn't a boy? Next time he is cheerleader watching dump a coke in his lap at the next game then say "sorry honey, that guy walking up the stairs distracted me." and check his response.
2006-12-14 12:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by jessica a 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well most guys say "I can look, but I can't touch" he's looking, but he's still going home in your arms. So don't let it discourage you. You're not over reacting. You're just being too cautious. Just put a little bit of trust in him, and I'm sure things will be good. Hopefully he's faithful to you and doesn't hurt you. I'm sure he finds you very attractive and wouldn't trade you in for the world. Keep in mind he's yours, not theirs. And if he messes that's up, it's on him. He's the one that has to deal with it.
2006-12-14 12:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy's personality. Ur BF seems to enjoy some eye candy inspite of being in a relationship with u. If u dont like it, tell him so in strict terms and be prepared to leave if he doesnt want to change. On the other hand, if u think its ok coz its just eye candy and not actual cheating, then continue ur relationship while keeping an eye on him, just in case.
2006-12-14 12:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by arwa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your not comfortable with this then you need to get the point across to him, he's not respecting your feelings and he see's that he doesn't have to because your not putting your foot down with him... either sh.it on the pot or just get off, either stay with him and let him continue to disrespect you or go find a guy that will, we all look at others but there is a line to be drawn on that when it comes to respect for ourselves and yes this is different then him watching porn because these are live girls right in front of him :) :) :)
2006-12-14 12:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow insecure or what !! why no longer be completely diverse .. rather of telling him off .. ask your self him verify out warm chicks with him! i mean its unlike hes cheating on ya hun,if 3 hundred and sixty 5 days completly gentle with one yet another .. why no longer verify out hotties jointly ..that way u each and each get to know that one yet another does surely look ... make it in many situations occurring that 3 hundred and sixty 5 days no longer encouraging him to circulate the line .. spice issues up slightly lass!!
2016-10-14 23:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for guys to look at other girls as long as he doesn't touch.
Maybe try not to fight about it with him why don't you write him a little letter explaining how you feel
2006-12-14 12:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he is an @ss. If he cant control his drooling while you are with him, I wonder what he cant control when you are not with him??
2006-12-14 12:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...he shouldn't be doing that in front of you. he should have more respect for you to not do that in front of you.
2006-12-14 12:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by smthomas306 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, he doesnt sound much like a keeper...
2006-12-14 12:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by laurie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋