2006-12-14 12:04:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you a whore?
What is he offering you money for?
You did not give much information!
But I will say this: Let your conscience be your guide.
2006-12-14 12:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not really. It's OK to accept the things that money buys, like eating out and going the the movies, that's dating. But money always changes things and will create a change in your relationship. It may make you feel obligated or him entitled. Frankly, the more you need the money, the harder I would try to resist taking it, if at all possible. Nice guys like to offer, but, both of you may regret it. If you truly like this guy, try to keep the money out of the relationship. Good Luck.
2006-12-14 20:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay...but i feel uncomfortable accepting more than just a few dollars from my boyfriend. $5 is the most that i'll accept but only if it's for something needed or for like a soda or something. Do not accept if he expects something in return (if you know what i mean.) but he's probably not like that or you wouldn't be with him, right. If it's a holiday gift, than any amount of money would be acceptable. it may feel a little uncomfortable to you, but there's nothing wrong with it. but some people take advantage of people who will give them money. be careful how much you accept.
2006-12-14 20:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by kjcs_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the money is for. Is it to pay for dates or date-related things? like is it to buy snacks at a movie or sodas at the school dance? Then I would say it is fine. Also, does he work and earn his own money? If he earns money and you don't then yes it would be okay. When hubby and I were dating, whoever made more money or had more money at the time paid for everything. You probably shouldnt be borrowing large amounts of money from him to pay for a car or anything like that until you're older.
2006-12-14 20:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by LISA C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you mean? Paying for meals, movies, etc., or just giving you money for.. services? I'm not sure how to answer this. Could you give more information?
If you mean paying for meals etc. then sure. I like to be nice when I take friends out to eat and to movies. Even if we aren't dating, I still like to pay their way, regardless of whether they can pay or not.
If he is just giving you money for no real reason, I wonder what he could be playing at. I wouldn't just accept money, without knowing why they are giving it.
2006-12-14 20:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by foolofone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. Get a part time job and be independent. It won't cloud other discussions later on in the relationship then.
2006-12-14 20:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay. As long as he give you the money from the heart. As long as he is helping you out that is okay.
2006-12-14 20:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by atl_ty2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are a hooker. I've never accepted money from anyone.
2006-12-14 20:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accepting money for exactly what??
2006-12-14 20:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ceajae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how he makes you feel about it. does it seem like he wants something in return. if so you'd be better sticking with the parents for cash....
2006-12-14 20:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋