ok there's this guy i met online, and he says he's love with me, and i don't know what to do because i hate him with a burning passion. how do i tell him that i don't want to talk to him anymore? he'll understand if i tell him cuz he's really nice, but how do i tell him without hurting his feelings?
2006-12-14 11:49:33 · 22 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you hate him and no longer want to talk to him and you want to know how to tell him this so that you don't hurt his feelings?
give him a link to your question. it will be brutally honest for him and he can be hurt or angry and allowed to move on with his life because if he loves you there is no way you wont hurt him.
the reason i say it like this is because you have been dishonest with him so far by talking to him when you hate him with a burning passion. tell him and get it over with for his sake.
2006-12-14 11:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how you tell him, it's going to hurt his feelings if he is in love with you. So there is nothing else to do but be honest with him. Honesty goes a long way in life and why beat around the bush if you are unhappy with his friendship. The fact that you care about whether or not his feelings are hurt, though, imply that you care about him more than you realize and don't hate him with a passion. If you did, you would easily be able to tell him to F^#k off. So, just be honest.
2006-12-14 19:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by thewhalehunter12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this purely an online-only relationship or one where you've met in person?
If it's an online-only relationship, best thing to do would be to block the person. That's why the feature was created :D
If you've met in person, then just be honest with him. Tell him you'd appreciate it if he'd stop contacting you because you're not interested. Don't lie. They can tell.
2006-12-14 19:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by CeeBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a list of things you can try:
1. Tell him you're not interested in a relationship right now, and just want to be friends (if you really do want to be friends)
2. Tell him you're already seeing someone else.
3. Don't respond to his messages as often.
4. If all this fails... Just ignore him.
2006-12-14 19:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by napejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and try not 2 be rude about it as best u can and dont feel bad if he is going 2 be hurt he is going 2 be hurt no matter how u tell him just let him know how you feel and move on your doing the best 4 you peace hope this helps you
2006-12-14 19:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by diamondbulletsfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ethir u dont talk to him anymore,or u should go online and be like hey did i tell u i met this really cute guy today and i am going on a date with him today,then the next day u tell him that u go out with that guy,u see sometimes u just have to lie.GOOD LUCK cuz ur ganna need it honey.
2006-12-14 19:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by calilove143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should meet up with him someplace nice and explain to him how you really feel and that it's just not working out for you. Let him know that you're in a place where you are searching for what you really want.
2006-12-14 19:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question really is a bit of a paradox. You "hate him with a burning passion" yet "he's really nice".
2006-12-14 19:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple ignore him
but I do have questions on your statement
there are several contridictions within what you said either you hate him or you like him, what is the go?
either way you can choose to be blantantly rude and block/ ignore him secondly you can fess up tell the truth and tell him to piss off......
2006-12-14 19:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the internet - you never know who is actually who they say they are, so be very careful. Do NOT give out personal info.
Tell him straight, if he persists, leave. Change your name...it's easy to get away on the net - fortunately.
2006-12-14 19:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by Haveagoodday! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋