It's his final week and he's real busy. So he just turned off his phone and didn't talk to me for 2 days. I was a little mad especially after knowing he went to a party that night. When i confronted him about this, his explanation is he went to that party at 3 am he figured i would be sleeping. And that he didn't forget about me, he just didn't call me because he's busy. But couldn't he have called me saying he's real busy we are not gonna talk long or something like that. He had to play this all of a sudden disappering game. Especially i asked a friend of his to tell him to call me, he knew i was expecting it yet he still didnt call saying it was too late i would be sleeping. So is this "i dont forget about you when i am busy, i just dont call" thing a believable excuse?
2006-12-14 11:47:01 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah
2006-12-14 11:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to be certain or anything but it is possible that he's cheating on you. Like someone else mentioned that if he had time to go to a party but still said he was busy. I would be suspicious because he had time to go to a party. I mean it won't take much of his time to call you just to say hi in all. I'm not sure but this is my guess. You might want to find out the truth and if he is then you need to say good bye and move on.
2006-12-14 11:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he giving you a reason to suspect he is cheating? Is this a pattern of behavior you are used to? Why ask a man's friends to side with you when his loyalty is with his boy, especially if he is cheating?
Busy or not, he should still call just to say hello or whatever. It is all about what you are willing to put up with.
If you did it to him, I promise you he would not be so understanding and would swear you up and down you are cheating on him.
2006-12-14 11:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not reasonable. If he's got time to go to a party, he's got time to call you. Simple as that. Seems as if the boy needs to get his priorities in order!
2006-12-14 11:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is fairly typical with most boys...ive heard that alot. it always upsets me unless there seems to really be a legit reason for his disappearing. but you need to tell him how it makes you feel first and if he continues to do it then i feel like he just being disrespectful.
2006-12-14 11:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by flmsgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is busy....why don't you get busy yourself? Perhaps he is considering the complexity of the universe. Leave him alone.
2006-12-14 11:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is reasonable. I'd start looking for another guy.
2006-12-14 11:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..once my bf didn't e-mail me for 1 whole week (he usually e-mails me evry day)..and i freaked, and it turned out, his e-mail was frozen for awhile...
2006-12-14 11:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by I wish i was invisible♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its reasonable. he might even be cheating on you.
2006-12-14 11:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would of been really pissed at him fa dat
2006-12-14 11:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋