Okay, I liked this boy, and my friend dragged me over there and said, "*****, she likes you!" And I ran to go get my stuff. But, I didn't know he had a gf(girlfriend). I wrote him a note just asking to be friends, then I said we could talk (before or after school at my locker) since we only looked at each other. Then, he showed his girlfriend the note, and now she's heated! But I still don't know why he showed it to her in the first place if I'm just asking to be friend?
And I told him my locker was on tha high-school side, and now she said she was coming to my locker to beat me up. Should I fight? And this is the same girl in my other question. Is there anything wrong asking to be friends? Thanx, all ur answers r appreciated.
-Curious Girl Who Is About 2 Get Beat Tha Heck Up
2006-12-14 11:44:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think she'll forget about it after christmas break since it's so long??? And my friend said that her bf was (might) going to break up wit her. If I choose 2 fight, where do I punch her??? How do I fight!!!??? Help!!!
2006-12-14 12:25:23 · update #1
She's insecure, just slap her in the face before she can touch you, then run like hell. But if this turns into a full out catfight, send me some pics!
2006-12-14 11:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shamudog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well she knows you like him and knows you want to be more than friends, so she kind of has a right to be pissed off. How would you feel if a girl was writing your boyfriend notes? It doesn't matter that the note said friends only, it is still a private note you wrote him, so I can see why she would be mad. If she needs to beat you up though, then that just shows she is insecure and maybe she got the vibe from her BF that he likes you. She feels like she can't beat you by being prettier, funnier, whatever, she she has to beat you physically. If you don't think you can win, then don't fight her. B/c if she kicks your ***, then the guy is NEVER going to like you. Also, if the guy aint worth getting suspended (and probably grounded) over then don't figh her, just tell one of your teachers or something, or else make sure you got your girls with you at all times. At any rate, if she has to threaten to beat you up but hasn't made any move yet, she prolly aint going to. Most people are just talk.
2006-12-14 11:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur wrong. U know you want to be more than friends and he knows it too. He would be wrong if he didn't tell his girlfriend about the note. If you have to ask someone if you can be friends then you already know theres a problem. Dont fight just try to talk it out.
2006-12-14 11:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by rc 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's afraid that you're going to steal her boyfriend.
If she confronts you, tell her she can have him and that he's not worth the trouble.
She's threatening you because she's really insecure, and afraid that he doesn't like her the way she likes him.
I'd stay away from him, and give up trying to be friends because we all know how long that will last. Go find someone available and go have some fun.
2006-12-14 11:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by patrick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol!!!
She is probably just a nother big mouth that can't get over herself!
Don't worry about gettin beat up cuz theres a 75% chance that u wont.Most ppl just threaten 2 beat ya up and they neva do just kuz they eitha scared or they just said that to show off 2 their friends that their "big & bad"-or wuteva.Believe me don't stress, i've had it said 2 me thousands of times just kuz i said sumthin or got in their face when they get in mine all the time!!!And ur right there is nuthin wrong w/ askin to be friends!!!I mean it's not like ur askin him out or anythin!!!! I would just ignore her 4 now and if she does come up to u tell her to back off and that u didn't want to get w/ him or anything.-just like it is.
good luck!!!
2006-12-14 11:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being friends. She obviously has an issue with other girls and her boyfriend. She may be worried about losing him, or just very unsure of herself. Try to talk to her like an adult, but if she attempts to harm you, whatever you do is self defense. Good luck!
2006-12-14 11:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anima Brave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, 5/10 times he likes you, and she's insecure. She doesn't want to lose her man to you! And if she eva tries 2 swing, holla at ya girl! And she's threatening you to scare you, and make sure you got ur girls wit yu, and everything will be okay. If she swings, go Jet Lee on her ***!
2006-12-14 12:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Jazzy™♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is jealous
maybe she has a right to be..maybe the guy is not faithful
i can see where she is coming from
but beating you up is not the answer
she needs to get her boyfriend in check
you may want to stay away from that type of frienship with him
especially since it infuriates his gf
2006-12-14 11:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first just be calm, and tell her that you were unaware he had a girlfriend when you expressed interest in him, and when you found out that is when you just suggested a friendship. If she still comes at you then you have to defend yourself, but try to avoid conflict if possible. I wish you the best and please be safe. Don't put yourself into a bad situation.
2006-12-14 11:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably showed it to her because he thinks its funny. and he didn't care about the note. but there truly nothing wrong with asking him to be friends. he's just a jackass. forget him. as for his girlfriend, i guess its up to you if you want to fight or not.
2006-12-14 11:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋