There are guys at my school that are super duper nice to me and i don't know if they are my frind or if they like me like me! i am really confused!!! guys help me out!!!!i am always getting mixed feelings from them!!!!! HELP!!!!!
2006-12-14 11:16:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Liking you... or just the way you look?
To like YOU... they have to get to know you. If they say they like you before they've had the months that it takes to get to KNOW someone- then they just like your exterior and they aren't interested actually in who YOU really ARE.
Then if they get to KNOW you- after taking months of learning about you-- bad points with the good points- without pressuring you for anything--- and they STILL like you? NOW- and ONLY NOW- do you know that they actually like YOU.
Pastor Larry Lombardi
2006-12-14 11:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by baronbago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. When I was in college, I had a lot of guy friends, and I know for sure that at least three of them really liked me, and to the rest, I was fine with them being my friend. First of all, if a guy's face just lights up when he sees you or is talking about you to someone else, then it is a sure thing he really likes you. Also, if he goes out of his way to do something nice for you, without you even asking, another sure fire sign. But, if he just talks to you because there really isn't anyone better around at the time, or if he is talking to you, but leaves you to go talk to some other girl, he is just a friend. Hope this helps.
2006-12-14 11:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by quizicalgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even the sweetest boys are full of surging hormones. So, yes. It means they like you if they take the time to notice and help you out. Guys can tell immediately if young women possess qualities they like. However they're unlike young women in that they verbally communicate it. They tend to take action like being gentlemanly or being helpful even if they like to roughhouse with their friends.
It sounds like you're in high school and therefore you might be hanging out in groups of girls(?). In high school, boys usually try to impress girls because they want to look good in front of other girls (and guys).
So, if you dig a certain guy, it's a good idea to talk to him and see how he interacts with you without the crowd. Hope all goes well.
2006-12-14 11:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Genevieve O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should just play it smooth for starters talke to this guy get to be really good friends. We u get very comfortable around him ask him if he likes if he says no then you'll know.
2006-12-14 11:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by ig0tquestions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they will flurt with u like make fun if u but not be mean
2006-12-14 11:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they hang out with you all the time
and care about your feelings
2006-12-16 14:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Brandon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋