not so long ago i went on a blind date,everthing went good and we had a good time. untill i dropped her off,she stated that she only wanted to be friends.i figured it had to be that i smoked.two weeks went by and her friend is trying to set us up again .so i ask her out again and we have a good time.on the second date she asks me why i have not called.i replied i didnt think she wanted to go out with someone that smoked.she said thats correct.she also mentioned that my life style is to unperdictable going all over the world five weeks out of the year.its my vacation i can go anywhere i want to. if she thinks im unpredicable and smoke why does she want to keep on dating.
2006-12-14 11:11:12 · 13 answers · asked by kermit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe a part of her likes that your unpredictable?
2006-12-14 11:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by mara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she said she wanted to be friends? Maybe that's what she's doing...being a friend.
But the whole thing about the smoking thing, and begrudging your vacation...hmmmm....watcha wanna go out with for anyways. Sounds to me she interested in some ways, but wants to change you. If she doesn't like what she sees now, and you like who you are, I would advise giving this one a pass.
Try and find someone who likes you just the way you are, because that's who they'll fall in love with. You...not who they want you to be.
2006-12-14 19:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is one of the uninitiated that thinks she can change a man to fit the mould she wants. You need to let it go because you are not that emotionally invested yet and soon will be - then it gets messy.
2006-12-14 19:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are asking a very nutszy question but still i will answer. STOP SMOKING! what if she has asthma or lung cancer did you know you can get lung cancer from smoking you could drop down dead for smoking, And stop being so rude---------------- your vacation what ever happened to school unless youir out of college.
2006-12-14 19:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does she think your a movie star or something. About your unpredictable life style. She sounds kind of weird to me. Unless she CANNOT GET A DATE. If you like her, I didn't mean to say she is weird.
2006-12-14 19:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something doesn't sound right.....
First you say that on the first date she said she just wanted to be friends then on the second date she says....why didn't you call me? She sounds like she is playing games!
2006-12-14 19:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by deezy89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's willing to look over those quirks due to your other qualities?
2006-12-14 19:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might like you for somethig else that is so good about you that she doesn't care about the other stuff
2006-12-14 19:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by im always right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her friend told her you did this to other woman its pay back time
2006-12-14 19:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you got to stop smoking crack. thats your problem
2006-12-14 19:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋