The semester is over, and we've only met on the bus and walking from the bus, so i may never see her again :(
I'm very shy, and she might have a boyfriend, so i'm very hessitant to ask her about her situation and ask her out. Before she mentioned the bf, i was about to ask her out.
2006-12-14 11:09:54 · 7 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always feel bad for guys who are so shy. I know how hard it must be to have to be the one to make the moves all of the time. I hope you shy guys get tough and go get the girl before someone else does. What I have seen happen is that shy guys end up with aggresive women because they don't have the guts to say no to them. Be strong shy guy, whats the worst that can happen? She will say no. Go for it!!!
2006-12-14 11:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you a little 'tale' of a friend of mine, she is a shy person too, several years ago we worked together, because of a project she have to travel 3 times a week from our city to other city nearby (1 hour in a bus) and she always take the same bus at 5:00 AM, after 1 month she told me she had seen a guy in the bus every time she took it, and for her he was gorgeous, but she only looked at him, after almost a year they just had exchanged smiles and sights and never talked, then the project comes to the end and the last day she took the bus she Finally write her name and telephone number in a paper and when they where getting off she gave it to him (with all her embarrassment) she told him that he likes her and that she would like to know him, and she left and he says he were going to call her.. and he call the next day. I was always telling my friend that she have to talk to him but she was too shy and she was expecting that he speak first.. at the end we knew he was more shy than her :P, well happy ending after 2 years they got married and now they are expecting their first child.
I'm not telling you you are going to get married... but my point is if you really like her why not give it a chance? you will never know if you don't try, make the first move and maybe something nice is just waiting!
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 19:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by espinoma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know is'it sad that the semester is over and you know i have the same problem, i became friend with this beautiful girl and now i dont think i will ever be able to see her. I am feeling so bad. and on top of it she had a bf. so may be is a good thing.
enough about me. if you get the chance to talk to her. aks hir how is the family? and she will ake you about your family. then you move to BF question. and she may ask you the same. and find out if she had a bf. that would be the first thing i would do. I have be hurt with this girl tha i just told you about.
2006-12-14 19:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Linux7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to do something as friends - coffee, study session, whatever. This way you can get to know her better without having to put yourself out there too much. If she has a boyfriend, it will probably come up in conversation, if not you can feel more comfortable asking her out. Good luck!
2006-12-14 19:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send her a card telling her u like her.. and want to get to know her or buy her a rose and give it to her on the bus with a card..
lots of luck happy holidays
2006-12-14 19:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait too long, you might miss the bus.
2006-12-14 19:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out anyway
2006-12-14 19:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋