he cheats on me(with my BESTFRIEND) and then she says that she would never do that. but all my true friends have proof. all my friend talked to my ex-best friend and she tells them them she was dating my BF at the same time he was dating me. what do i do to break up with and maybe get my friend back?
2006-12-14 10:46:12 · 49 answers · asked by Kisa_wa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just kick on his asssssssssss
2006-12-14 10:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once loyalty is lost, then I would say cut your losses ahead of time. Trust can be regained, but will never be able to attain the previous status it once had been. Do not belief what your friends say just because they say it. A picture may be worth a thousand words, but sometimes those words can be lost in translation. Look for your own facts. Ask your best friend and your boyfriend point blank. Weigh the opposing information and judge with your instincts. If you feel he is cheating on you, then you may as well leave him now. This feeling will lead to darker ones that could corrupt you both. Some people cheat even when they love the other person and it may or may not be the other person’s fault or the partner’s fault either. Every situation varies. Think it through, but use your heart too. If you can never trust him, then leave him be. Trust is more than just a little important. It is the basis for all structures of society. There is a need for reliability.
2006-12-14 11:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, first things first:
That girl wasn't your friend. Don't wast time considering getting your friend back, because she didn't waste time to consider your feelings and how much her actions would hurt you (and why she would even date him when she knew he was dating you is beyond me...it does, however, say a lot about her).
Moving on,
He doesn't deserve a second thought. You tell him that you're not willing to settle for the likes of him when you can do so much better. Those friends that you call your true friends will be there to help you through, trust me it gets hard when you think about the good times you had together, but none of those compare to his betrayal ( and your friends for that matter).
I've been there. Every one told me that I was making a mistake by dealing with this guy. It took me 6 years and two kids to see him for what he's really worth. Don't stick around or think about the what ifs. It's not worth it.
Whatever you do, don't blame yourself. You can't stop someone from cheating, but when you find out, you can stop them from hurting you.
Life is short. Spend it with someone who values you and everything you have to offer them. There's some one who will appreciate your smile, the style of your hair, or your favorite perfume.
2006-12-14 11:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by torilynn :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k look i know how u feel it happen the some thing 2 me see when i found out my bf was cheating on me i was going to dunp him but i got back at him i didnt kiss him and i started to teas him then i whent on a date with another guy and then the guy startd 2 really like me so then i dump my bf and then i went to the other guy and kiss him my ex-bf was so pissed that he dump my best friend then my best frind came to me and said that she was sorry about what she did i told her that i was really mad about what she did but now we r only friend but not best friend i can't trust her any more she lied to me so u should do what i did if u went to but your best friend dont trust her again u can be friends but she cheated on u with your bf and say lied about it that wrong and not a true friend
2006-12-14 10:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off kick is a ss to the curb.....second off if your friend was the other girl then why in the world would you want to be friends with her again....she obviously doesnt care that much about you in the first place.....neither one of them are worth your time just go get a new bf and better friends
2006-12-14 10:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Tell him it's over. Find a new boyfriend and a new best friend and let them ruin each other's lives. he will cheat on her sure as the world!
2006-12-14 10:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're in a school, start looking for another school to transfer and to get into a fresh start. if you're working (which i think less likely - from what you sound like), look for a new opportunities in a bigger city like new york or something. that sh it usually happens in a smaller town where most younger peeps like to gain attention in a wierd way. get the fcuk outta there. you'll have a more enjoyable life. i did that but for a different reason tho.
2006-12-14 10:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on do you really have to ask what to do? Apparently neither of them are your friends so dump them both. And as for getting them back...don't stoop to their level. Have you heard of Karma? Yeah I do and it's true, it will catch up to them and they will get what's coming to them.
2006-12-14 10:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i'd say leave the CHEATER! there are more guys out there who probably want to date you anyway. And about your friend...could you trust her again? REALLY? think about it. I say if she was your best friend then she shouldn't have done that to you in the first place.
2006-12-14 10:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by RoRo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not worth getting back and he is not worth staying with. You don't need friends/boyfriends like that.... move on, let them deal with the drama and you do your own thing.
2006-12-14 10:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by gita76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new BF and best friend.
2006-12-14 10:48:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋