What do you do when there is a co-worker trying to start trouble for you for no reason but your boss totally takes her side all the time?
2006-12-14 10:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
me, the trouble maker, and the boss are all female not male. she only causes trouble for me and its usually hard to prove myself right.
2006-12-14 11:07:34 · update #1
me, the trouble maker, and the boss are all female not male. she only causes trouble for me and its usually hard to prove myself right.
2006-12-14 11:07:35 · update #2
Is she causing trouble for only you or for anyone else?
I ask this because maybe there is 'truth' in numbers. Make an appointment with your boss and take your evidence in with you.
Tell him what's going on. He may or may not believe you, but at least you would have your say.
How bad is the 'trouble'? Is it bad enough you will need to go over his head? Make sure you talk with him first before going on.
You may also need to confront the trouble maker. Tell her you don't like what she's doing and that you are carefully documenting everything. (Don't leave the documentation around where someone can get it an get rid of it)
Any chance of having some mediator or counselor step in to help?
I hope this helps.
2006-12-14 10:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Malika 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready for trouble. First everytime the co-worker does something wrong or says something negative about you , write it down,include witnesses names, time and date for documentation. Don't get into arguements or confrontations with this person because they are trying to make you look bad ESPECIALLY if there are other people around. Just walk away or ignore the person. Go to your human resources department if you have one and file a claim of harrassment against the person and get a copy for your records. Look for the telephone number of the Labor board at your job , there should be a poster up on a bulletin board where the stuff is supposed to be openly displayed. If there isn't one . look in your phone book or call 411. Ask the Labor Board what you can do to stop this person and if you can file a complaint with them against your co-worker and boss. Allso you might just want to find another job because life could continue to be difficult there and you'll just be miserable everytime you go to work.
2006-12-14 10:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by jesshispet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Document, document, document, and then document again. Who, what. where, when, why, and how did...... Build a case against that person and ur boss cuz u look like u r headed for the firing squad soon. This way u can go to the labor department and plead ur case with surprise documentation including all the above "W's" and How?
Guess who'll win? U might even be able to sue civilly.
2006-12-14 10:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, find a new job no matter how good is your salary, it is better to start a new one, instead of being stress all the time. Good luck.
2006-12-14 11:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by linda c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... :o)... haahaahaa... do you really wanna kno' what I would do if a co-worker was to start being a or trynah be a bully on me and Shiett? do you really wanna kno' what I would do?
If a co-worker was to get stupid wit' me... especially infront of a grip of co-workers up in there... to be honest to you... I don't think it would be the best advise for you but to me... I would body slam her and beat the shiett out of her... kuz' she bestah back dah **** up or she gon' smack dah **** up... and when I'm done... I'm out of dat job... no joke... I mean... shoot... everyone kno's me seriously... I mean, I'm cool wit' people... but if they cross me... "RUN"....
But yeah... you asked right... and there's my answer... sorry sweety... a beeh-otch like me... I don't CANDY COAT... I jus' tell it like it is... hope any of wat I said helps.... lol... good luck...
2006-12-14 11:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by MINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should look for another job because she is sleeping with the boss.
2006-12-14 10:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she might have a relationship witt him so unless u want to have an affair witt him u should get a new JOB
2006-12-14 10:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by beauty beyond description 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you can come up with some solid evedence all this is happening, probably not much
2006-12-14 10:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new job
2006-12-14 10:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by ixlinxs 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋