Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up about a month ago. We are recently talking again and trying to work things out so that we can get back together. The reason we broke up is that he is very busy right now; he's a senior in high school, doing some college, and he's on the basketball team. So with all that he really doesn't have time for a girlfriend. Since we have been talking again, he treats me like he did when we were together, only he tells people "we're just friends", and I don't have a problem with that. He also has a really bad temper and gets mad easily and always takes it out on me. And I don't know what to do about it. When he's not mad he's so sweet, caring, and understanding and just everything you'd want a boyfriend to be. He gets mad over stupid things that are out of my control and then he's mad at the whole world and won't talk to me and treats me bad. He'll just get an attitude with me and ignore me. If I say something to him about it he tells me "I'm controling."
2006-12-14 10:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by elizabethxoxo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also he's 18 and I'm 14 and a freshman.
I do know from a very reliable source he is a little bit bipolar and I think that's why he has such moodswings and a bad temper. But I just need to know if I should talk to him about it and try to work things out, or if I should just tell him that I can't take it anymore and that things will never work out. And does anyone know if this is some sort of mental abuse?
2006-12-14 10:28:45 · update #1
hey girl if you really like him i say therapy for the both of you it could help alot talk to him tell him it hurts when he yells at you or what ever he does but let him have another chance tape him losing control then when he's had the time to cool down show him the tape he don't have the room to argue best of luck
2006-12-14 10:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by sunflower73094 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an abuser. He's mentally abusing you now. If you let it continue it will become physical abuse. Get away from him ASAP.
2006-12-14 10:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by sm4125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously he needs help he will continue getting worse and maybe he will hit -- even if he does not the verbal abuse is just as bad --- if he wont get help im sorry you need to get away from him
2006-12-14 10:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋