I’m pretty close friends with the guy I like. I mean we talk for hours and we always love to hang out. I’m kind of shy and I don’t want to complicate our friendship, and make it awkward or lose it so I don’t want to tell him that I like him. Last night he told me he sort of likes this girl for a year or so. But the thing is he said before he told me he liked her that he can like many people at a time. What’s even wierder is that he has liked this girl for almost two years but he’s never said or done anything about it, and he barely talks to her ever.
Yet he talks to me 24/7 and says I’m his best friend. So why do I always catch him staring at me during english? Why did he tell me he loves to make me laugh and that he missed me if I wasn’t in school that day? Why does he wait for me after every class? Why does he always “accidently” kick my feet beneath the table (5 times in a row)? Why does he call me everyday just to ask me questions about school work and then talk for 3-4 hours
2006-12-14 10:24:48 · 7 answers · asked by India 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at a time? Why does he give me nickames and loves to tease me? Why does he sit next to me everyday at lunch? Why did he immediately move to sit next to me when the teacher said we could get new seats? Why is he constantly smiling at me and focuses on me in a crowd? Why has he suddenly taken more interest in my friends?
I hate all these mixed messages and I’m so confused. What does all this mean? Please explain and I hope I gave enough detail.
2006-12-14 10:25:07 · update #1
Sounds like fewer mixed messages than more to me. He likes you and wants to test the waters to see if you are the jealous type. A lot of men don't like jealous women. With all other signs positive, I think you have nothing to worry about.
2006-12-14 10:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just “that” type of person. A person is quite friendly while distant; he gives you enough to keep you interesting enough to stay around but not enough so that you will ever truly know him. This is basically me. These people tend to be rare so try not to scare him off. He could be a good catch waiting to happen. According to earlier stated comments, there could be some promise in this possibly budding relationship. There are many issues at hand. Perhaps he does not want interrupt your life or want to maintain the current friendship since it may seem quite comfortable. Then again, this could be in your head. The stares are coincidental, the kicks just playful, and the comments that of your best friend. Could he just be insecure and somewhat dependant on you? There are plenty of confronting and conflicting yet understandable, probable explanations for these “mixed” messages. What do you know about him? How long have you been friends for? Do you want something more to happen? If nothing comes of this, then just put it out in the open while the two of you have some “publicly private” time together. Make it crystal clear.
2006-12-14 18:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you, definitely. did the same thing so i should know. didn't work out in the end :'-( since we kinda broke up :'-( and don't even talk anymore :'-( but it was good while it lasted :'-( but he definitely likes you but if you do go out try and make it work because if you do break up its really gonna suck...just try your hardest to keep a relationship, even if it is just as friends...
2006-12-14 18:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just as shy as you..one of you needs to break the ice..why not you..what have you really got to loose compaired to what you could have??? Go for it.. tell him you want him and you to be an item...
2006-12-14 18:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that he does this because he thinks you're his best friend.
This may not be the answer you were hoping for, but that's what I think.
2006-12-14 18:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be that he likes you but doesn't want to mess up a friendship. you need to ask him all of this.
2006-12-14 18:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by teddybearleogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooooo grrrrrrrl! you got your self a secret admirer... who is nto so secret anymore! LOL
2006-12-14 18:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by MSI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋