Would you let your daughter go to hawaii alone with her b/f for christmas break as long as she brought her friend?? Is it a sign of trust?? Would you trust you daughter?? Why or why not??
2006-12-14 10:24:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They have been together for 3 years, so would you trust the guy??
2006-12-14 10:40:20 · update #1
They are both 16.
2006-12-14 10:40:53 · update #2
They are planning on staying 2 weeks.
2006-12-14 10:41:23 · update #3
I know they have slept in each other's arms before. Will her friend and her friends b/f be off on there own the whole time??
2006-12-14 10:43:42 · update #4
That depends how old she is. If she is a little over 16 and you have trust in your daughter then i wouldnt see a problem w/ it. But the trip shouldnt be longer than a week.
2006-12-14 10:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by lpkegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your daughter? Are you comfortable with the fact that they will be sexually active while there?
I don't have a child that is old enough to be going anywhere alone but I have a 16 year old sister that I would trust to go to Hawaii with her boyfriend as long as a friend was there too... I don't think that he would try to pull anything too crazy with her friend in the room. You know your daughter better than anybody and so you know how responsible she is. Would you trust her if her boyfriend wasn't going to be there? If the answer is yes, than you should be comfortable sending her there with her boyfriend. If your daughter has a history of getting in trouble and not following directions than you shouldn't feel comfortable sending her anywhere without adult supervision.
I also hope that if she is a minor that her boyfriend's family is accompanying them. If they are, no worries. You should let her go.
2006-12-14 18:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends how your daughter is because some daughters want to earn their parent's trust and do good in school and will never do anything to make their parents mad but then someother children could also not care and have the best time of their life thinking you will never know and not care about anything that will happen
2006-12-14 18:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't.. .. i mean you can say that you trust your daughter as much as you want to.. but it's Hawaii.. do you think her friend is going to stop her if she thinks she's doing something inappropriate.. i don't think so.. maybe if she's a good friend she might tell her that she shouldn't.. but it all depends on your daughter.. maybe she might not do anything.. but maybe she will.. all she knows is that your not going to be there to supervise..
2006-12-14 18:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by coqueta19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust her to do or not to do what exactly?
Can you trust her to come back home?
Or are you asking about smoking pot? Having sex? Drinking Beer?
Or... are you asking about general safety issues? Can you trust her to stay safe?
What are you asking or what are you afraid of exactly?
2006-12-14 21:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Hawaii SEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on old your daughter is?
2006-12-14 18:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by peanutbulls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depnds on how old she is and if she has ever given me a reason NOT to trust her.
2006-12-14 18:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no they are irresponsible 16 year olds, and they would probably come back and you would be a grandma.
2006-12-14 18:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not without a wedding ring..properly put on her finger in the proper ceremony..
2006-12-14 18:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old she is....
16 is a big fat no.
2006-12-14 18:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋