i really like him but i know he will just do it again and agian. how do i break up with him without hurting him?
2006-12-14 10:22:14 · 58 answers · asked by Kisa_wa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are worried about hurting him? you can only truly hurt someone who cares about you and seems he doesn't... so just tell him he cheated, you know it, and its over... :o)
2006-12-14 10:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my g/f cheated on me, the last thing that I would care about was "how to break up with her without hurting her". OR HIM.....you seem like a very caring person but you should start with yourself. Don't let someone do that to you because it will be really hard for you to trust him in the future. Unless you are willing to COMPLETELY let this go and try to move on with him...I would just tell him it is over as quickly as possible and let it go. Move on. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-14 10:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ginger P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you break up with him without hurting myself. You need to ask the question will I be happier with the next player when he cheats on me. So the issue is now can you remain a love slave to the one you adore. He needs you and there are women who remain. If you get another b/f you might consider the outsider who are less attractive but more like yourself in loving. One love always brings depression.
2006-12-14 14:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! If he has hurt you, you should do the same. Look, just walk up to this guy, and say, " It is over." Then walk away. If he has the right to keep doing this to you, you shoould not just stand there and say, " I fogive you." Break up with him harsh, and quick. If he comes running back say you already have another boyfriend, or that you like someone else. I might sound realy mean, but after what he doea to u does not compare! Gl!
2006-12-14 10:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without hurting him? What!?!!? Look us women by nature are nurturers but it has to be stopped somewhere. Sweety he was not considering your feelings when he cheated, why consider his. Yes you can break it off and stay tactful and classy, but do it because that's the type of lady u are and not because of his feelings. Remember who the injured party is......YOU. There are plenty of guys out there sweety, let it go quick before you overthink it and get caught up in the bullshit
2006-12-14 10:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by LAURA F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you are worried about hurting him for ----WHAT REASON??You are a really nice person to be so concerned about his feelings after all he STEPPED OUT ON YOU?? And did that HURT YOU?? Of course it did--Wake up and smell the coffee just tell him --YOU ARE OUT OF HERE --don't waste your time patty caking with someone who didn't give you the time of day to care weather your feelings would be hurt by what they did Get a back bone--But God Bless you for being a caring person just the same--even tho he doesn't deserve it
2006-12-14 10:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will cheat on you again, if you dont put a stop to it now, he will continue to do it, he'll act good for a while but then he'll go back to his old cheating ways, girl just dont even stay with him, because your only hurting yourself...your gonna continue letting him do this if you keep going back or staying with him, teach him a lesson, trust me it'll hurt for a while but let time pass we all go through it and time heals the wound in the heart if you act too desperate and cant let him go then your accepting his behavior whether you like it or not honey be strong and validate yourself more...God Loves You...Do you? (love yourself enough)
2006-12-14 10:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by dat_sweetmami 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without hurting him?! You are concerned about hurting him when he cheated on you with someone else and could have possibly carried a disease and pass it on to you? That goes to show he doesn't care about your emotional well being nor your physical one. Tell him it's over.
2006-12-14 10:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by jesus_is_my_prozac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he will just do it again, so best to get out of it now, and not feel bad for him, he did not feel badly when he was cheating on u. just tell him it is over with. simple as that. and stand by what u believe in.don't back down and change your mind, especially if he suddenly becomes a changed person.
2006-12-14 10:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldnt have cheated on you in the first place. If you are really concerned about hurting him then you should say, " hey, im really mad that you cheated on me. i dont want it to hapen again so were over." and tell him how cheating on you hurt you. if you do that it should work. if he becomes sad just forget about him.
~good luck
2006-12-14 10:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he cheated on you, did he think that wouldn't hurt you? Just tell his *** you don't need him anymore, if you let him get away with it this time, he will only do it again. Hey girl, don't let a man make a door mat out of you.
2006-12-14 10:25:31 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋