i have told my boyfriend that because of the fighting and arguing that we have done over various things and the pain i have felt for so long in the relationship that i no longer want the physical side of the relationship and don't feel that way any more. Will this stop and make him realise we need to try harder and stop fighting or will the fact I'v told him he has killed my sexual feelings push him further away?
2006-12-14 10:21:55 · 12 answers · asked by mymanomer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll probably be pushed away even further....
2006-12-14 10:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well everyone in a relationship argues sometimes and apparently its caused you some pain which also happens. If he loves he will respect it and try to work on the relationship to get it back to were it used to be or some guys will just find the physical some were else. You know your guy, what do u think? Once u start having sex with a guy they expect it all the time (some guys). Just be careful because in this situation things can take a turn for the worse and just prepare yourself for any outcome.
2006-12-14 10:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation with the exception that I'm married to my significant other. I do feel a lot of pain. Sometimes it works and our relationship feels as though it is stronger than ever othertimes it doesn't and the fighting just continues. I sometimes feel I want out, but my morals tell me to keep trying to make it work for the sake of the marriage. I think you should take into consideration how long you've been together to determine whether or not the relationship is worth saving or maybe it's run its course and it's time to move on.
2006-12-14 10:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by juju baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck, girl, you're looking for a fortune teller. Seems to me that you have lost so much self confidence that you can't see the answer to this. There are some major differences betweens the boys and the girls in this world and sex drive is one of them. Some men I know have been able to have a sexual relationship with a woman they've positively hated just because they want to get their rocks off but dont want to lose what security they have. You sound like you need to find a big helping of self esteem. Think of how you want a relationship to be, think of really whether it's possible to have this with your current partner and if it isn't, take a deep breath and leave. Find your friends, your family, spend time with them and find what interests you. You are worth more than being stuck in a miserable dysfunctional relationship with a man who is also clearly unhappy. And so is he. make a choice and above all else, stick with the choice you make. Nothing is pemanent.
2006-12-14 10:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by dionysos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he needs pushing further away. If he is violent towards you, then pushing him away as far as Antarctica is not nearly enough. Maybe you could persuade him to volunteer for George W. Bush's manned Mars mission?
2006-12-14 10:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ghostrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are prepared to continue in the relationship even though you never touch each other? Come on, cut what ever strings still bind you to him and move on. That's no way to live.
2006-12-14 10:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are fighting all the time puts stress on the relatinship and it's bad anyway so if saying that makes him walk then he didnt want to really be with you anyway . move on with your life a relationship isnt supposed to cause pain , it's supposed to be happy
2006-12-14 10:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and he dont get it on then it wont be long til he's getting it on elsewhere
So you be careful out there !
2006-12-14 10:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by raythecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way further away... like antarctica away.
2006-12-14 10:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really cared for you he would try and work things out
2006-12-14 10:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by amandaissoocool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋