My girlfriend is the best I have ever had in all ways, But I find things to good to be true. She is very outgoing and friendly (lots of male friends) Should I be worried Her best friend says she not one to do that.
2006-12-14 10:20:58 · 7 answers · asked by gdmills37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's natural intuition to have doubts or cautions. I am madly in love myself but I am scared. I just got out of a divorce which was horrible only when we got married and scared of it to happen again, which I know it won't. He is the same, the greatest guy I've ever been with treating me like a princess and everything. I am so not used to it, and neither are you. Being hurt too many times and finding something that is way better is hard to adjust to. Give it time. I think you will learn that she is trustworthy and could be the one.
2006-12-14 10:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine. Lots of women have male friends and lots of men have female friends. Lots of people cheat and lots of people don't. You've just got to allow yourself to trust this woman and really, that means being open to the possible hurt that might come along. It could be that way with anyone despite who or what sex their friends are.
Oh god, that minister guy is a totally paranoid sexist. Don't start telling your girlfriend what goes through a man's head. Hahaha, she's a sexual being too! I'd be offended if my lover was trying to warn me against male friends. That's condescending and controlling! If your girlfriend was smart, she'd leave you for that. Just trust or you'll never be able to love anyone. If you can't trust her, you can't love her.
2006-12-14 12:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is about trust and taking risks.
You have to trust that your girlfriend will stand by you and not with other men. If you live in fear of her cheating or leaving you, then your relationship is more rocky than you knew.
If you truly love her, take a step of faith. Show her how much you love her and prove to her how lucky she is to have you.
Good luck!
2006-12-14 16:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to be in love. If you can't become vulnerable & trust the other person then you really have no basis for a relationship.
On the flip side, she needs to guard herself against the imaginings of these men. Maybe you should tell her what goes through a man's mind despite them being "just friends".
2006-12-14 11:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is too good to be true we all ...well not all .....deserve love and happiness! Just live your life and kiss the joy while you have it , and if your lucky and work hard on emotions and yourself it will be yours for the eternity , of course there is always trails ..........God Bless!
2006-12-14 10:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to take that risk and try things out and see what happens but i would not jump too fast just ask the woman if she would like to go to a moive sometime and go from there and take your time and get to know one of another. thanks i hope this helps shortlittlemama03
2006-12-14 10:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by shortlittlemama03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her best friend just wants to make u jelous,so u will have a fight with her & break up with her because he is jelous from u.
2006-12-14 10:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by jaws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋