me and him broke up because i was a jealous freak in his eyes and in my eyes he's a dishonest person, i found out he was talking 2 like 7 girls in the phone on the weekends when he was with his buddies out clubbing, thats usually the time he doesnt want me to botther him because he's out with the boys well the thing is me and him havent gone broke up or not talked for longer than 2 or 3 days then we'll talk again ive been strong and havent picked up bc i feel hurt and i always go back and now i really want to teach him a lesson..he acs different everytime he's with his boys but with me alone he's a different person i dont know what2 do i havent picked up his phone calls at all im usually there when he needs someone but now he doesnt have anybody but probably his so called boys or those little girleys he's probably been messing around with what should i do?He been leaving me songs and messages saying he wants2 atleast be friends but then again he leaves me songs saying he misses me?
2006-12-14 10:00:26 · 11 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should i do should i talked to him and say dont call me no more or should i just not pick up at all what do you think will shock him more to hear from me or not hear from me at all?
2006-12-14 10:14:40 · update #1
It really sounds like he's trying to make you feel guilty. All he's doing is playing mind games and messing with your emotions. Don't fall for it!! You obviously broke up for a reason. You don't need him. The very best thing that you can do for yourself is forget about him and move on. There are plenty of other guys in this world that will treat you with love and respect and not talk to other women or act like a totally different person when they aren't with you. All you have to do is look for them. I really do believe that there's someone out there for everyone and we'll all find that person when we least expect it. Trust me, you'll be ok.
Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays!!
2006-12-14 10:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Tweety Gurl*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie, Breaking up is a hard thing on both parties. If you guys have been broken up for awhile, then he's gotten a lookee at what's out there and has come to his senses so that puts an interesting twist on the whole situation :) But in general, alot of this depends on the history between you guys. It also depends on how long you guys where together and how long you have been broken up for. Whether or not he means it also depends on the type of person/bf he was to you and is in general. If YOU miss him and want to give the relationship another go, then I suggest that you plan a picnic somewhere quiet and have a real honest-to-honest, heart-to-heart about what you want, what you expect in the relationship and of him and discuss whatever it was that broke you guys up in the first place. Do try and resist arguing/yelling at him, because all that will make the situation much more harder and much more emotional to deal with. The key thing here is to get him to express himself and his emotions and stuff. So, when you get the urge to yell at him, take a deep breath in and calmy express your point or whatever. If you don't want to get back together with him, then calmy and politely tell him no, and that its better to let things be and move on. GoodLuck!!!
2016-03-13 07:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words: FORGET HIM!!!!
Yes, I know, it sounds harsh, but that's the only thing you can do. If, like you said, you two broke up before, and then got back together, but then broke up again, for the same reason, he's not going to change, and if he talks to 7 other girls over the weekend, and hangs out with his friends, even more than you, well, then he's NOT a good boyfriend at all!!!!! Just ignore him. It seems as if he got used to you coming back to him every time he sends you songs and pleaing messages. But, just forget about him this time. He's sooooooo not worth it, and if he does need someone to talk to, let him talk to his friends if for some reason they seem more important than you. Just leave him hanging, he doesn't diserve you at all!!! Let him go out with the other 7 girls or something. There are plenty of other guys out there that may be WAY better than him. You want to teach him a lesson? FORGET HIM. That should teach him enough. Well, good luck anyway, but remember... IGNORE HIM.
2006-12-14 10:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by lalala <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex, you dumped him for a reason. There's always someone better out there, you just gotta find him. If he was to busy for you all the time, unfaithful, he doesn't deserve you. Point blank. Forget about him.
2006-12-14 10:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Haru 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will never give up sundays with the guys watching football for a woman. Be flexible. That's probably why you aren't together anymore. This might sound rude, but the term is bros before hos. The homies come first.
2006-12-14 10:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by #1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep doing what you're doing, ignoring him.
2006-12-14 10:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple, he wants to have sex, till he find somebody so forget him and move on, find somebody for yourself, if you miss sex, find a fbuddy
2006-12-14 10:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by pluto m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He hasnt changed and you are just lonely b/c of the holidays. You will still be jealous...just think about it.
2006-12-14 10:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone
2006-12-14 10:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by danika1066 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, dude, have you ever, like, masturbated? I mean, really masturbated, man?
2006-12-14 10:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋