my dad is 72 years old and has a bad heart condition. Lately his wife (30 years younger) has started being really mean to him (talking trash and being rude) She even starts screaming fights where he ends up taking nitro pills.. What does it seem like she's up to? They have property and he wants to sell it and buy another place in his home state while she wants to go to the east coast. Dad's doctor told him that a humid atmosphere will kill him in his current condition and that's just where she wants to move. Any thoughts???
2006-12-14 09:59:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would have a talk with your dad regarding his health and how the move to the east coast would not be good for him, as his doctors have already told him. Don't make it an issue about the gold digger, because love is blind and he may even resent you for it. Just push him towards buying the house where he wants to, after all, he is entitled to do what he wants and ms. thing can just take a back seat and be happy that he will be in good health, discuss this with her too, so maybe she will give in knowing that you know your dads medical condition and what this move can possibly do to him. See how she takes it, after all you just want him to be happy and healthy. Hope your dad is strong enough to resist this woman's plans, and that he purchases the house he is happy with. May God Bless your dad and may he live a long and happy life.
2006-12-14 11:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be up to something for insurance purposes after his nearing death, but then again she can just be really stressed and cannot handle this situation the right way. she probably is just as afraid as you are to losing him, but her reaction (yelling, etc) is her way of expressing some kind of feeling. not exactly the best way to vent, but maybe that's her outlet.
you should talk to her about the future and come up with a plan on what is going to happen to everything and who is going to take care of what. you might even want to talk to your dad privately and discuss the options of leaving you with the important stuff like the house papers or anything that he solely has possession of. maybe even leaving you more than what he might leave his wife.
sorry to read about your father. goodluck.
2006-12-14 18:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say "gold digger?"
hey..I'm only being honest. All she wants is the money..you better keep an eye her. Take your dad into your care if need be. I would...he does not deserve that kind of treatment especially in his condition.
2006-12-14 18:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U Fer Real?
Ok... what's the first red flag that comes to your mind after reading your own question.
SHE MEANS HIM DEATHLY HARM...
Dag nab it.. that's what it sounds like.
C'mon now... You need to have a serious talk with your dad..... before it's too late.
2006-12-14 18:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't let him move there, she has grown tired of him and would shove into a hole in the ground if he was standing next to one.
2006-12-14 18:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like someone we'll see on an episode of forensic files on court tv-you need to get your dad away from her as soon as possible...
2006-12-14 18:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by kelly r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that what you are feeling in your gut is correct. I wouldn't leave my dad alone with her - NO MATTER WHAT!
2006-12-14 18:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋