there is this guy named cody, he doesn't like me because I'm too grown up??
2006-12-14 09:56:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Honey, you can't make a person like you or love you. You first need to love yourself. And if you were grown up you would already know the answer.
2006-12-14 13:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant MAKE someone like you either they do or they dont. Its common for females to be precieved as more mature than males for YEARS! Dont waste your time, instead of focusing on the dreamboat( i mean come on even movie stars dont get the guy they want) try just being a good all around person. And pay attention to the ones that seem interestedin you. Be smart many guys in highschool are too afraid to say anything. Look for sublte cues... someone who holds your gaze a little longer, or gets flustered when yoru aruond. I missed out on some great opportuniteis because I was focused on daint older guys. BTW dont date guys older than your comfortable with. they do except more, And unwanted pregnancy really changes your whole life.If your still in highschool remember this is just for fun. You probably wont find your soul mate for years. and hey mamybe someday when cody grows up you'll hook up but dont count on it......Just be fabulous you.
2006-12-14 18:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask why you would want to lower your standards to get the boy to like you? If he does not like you let him go. Its the old saying. You only want what you cannot have right now. And once you get it you will find out it was not worth it. And in the mean time you have lost all your friends because you lowered yourself to his standards to get Him to like you. Think about it will ya.
How would you feel if someone that you did not like that way,was chasing you? Put the shoe on the other foot. If you ask me I really don't think you are acting that grown up.
2006-12-14 18:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by ms_swampy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make or get anyone to love you. For it to be true love it has to happen naturally. I would give up on this guy and try dating someone more mature. If this guy thinks you are too grown up then he probably just wants to play around in relationships anyway and would not be a good partner for love.
2006-12-14 17:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jayne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like you because of you, why the hell would you want to get him to love you?
You obviously have no common interests, and he sounds immature...
Don't wait around for him, if you're "too grown up", then turn your eyes on the real men.
He'll regret it when he's a "young at heart" cab driver and you've got a big girl profession and a hott man who loves how mature you are.
Bottom line? Why are you looking at the situation like this?? Most girls don't like guys who are immature. Stand tall, be proud of who you are.
2006-12-14 18:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by slanderer of names 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too grown up? thats stupid. I wouldn't change for him if he doesn't like you for who you are but.... If you dress maybe like, just a cami with a v-neck shirt and tight lite jeans, you'd look totally hot. No collared shirts or sweatpants. If he thinks your "too grown up" dress and act like you would if you were in sixth or seventh grade again. Make sure you wear your hair down and it looks totally awesome when your part is on the side of your head. I don't know how you already dress but... I'm just sayin..
2006-12-14 18:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by jenny b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first u have 2 get him 2 like u but dont change urself 4 anyone. there's probly some1 out there just like cody who luvs u 4 who u r.
2006-12-14 18:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by makedarad22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't mature as early as girls do. You can't make him like you and you should never try to change to make someone accept you. There are lots of guys out there; you'll find one of them who isn't intimidated by your grown up persona.
2006-12-14 18:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want him to fall in love with a fake you. In other words, you want your relationship to be based on lies. There is an old adage, a man gets married expecting her not to change; a woman gets married expecting he will change. Be yourself, accept yourself and you will find a guy that wants you for what you are, not what you pretend to be.
2006-12-14 18:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your last statement is ridiculously false... If you were REALLY grown up, you wouldn't have asked this question, for one, and you also wouldn't WANT an immature boy, much less one whom you already know doesn't like you! Sheesh!
2006-12-14 17:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋