ok so i just got my first boyfriend and hes cool and all. so i met him like on december first and he asked me out the next friday! and so..you know those crushes that last like a week and then go away and you think that person is kinda weird and dumb..well thats kinda like what happened. i liked him and he asked me out...i said yes and now the crush i had for him is gone...and i think hes like dumb and i have mixed feelings about him now..i dont know if im being picky but i dont know what to do. he really seems to like me...but the happy mushy feelings i had for him the first week are gone.....what do i do?
2006-12-14 09:55:17 · 19 answers · asked by hello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just break up with him.
2006-12-14 10:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Drop the guy and wait for something better..
Do not waste your time, Another guy might see you and will not ask you out because you are going with some one else.
Drop him like a hot potato.. No need to explain it to him..
You might want to say that you have had second thoughts, also that your parents do not want you to have a boyfriend at this time.
You have a nice day.
2006-12-14 10:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by dalevzipprich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should probably give him one more chance, all boys are dumb. If you still don't like him tell him you aren't allowed to date because of your parents. Or make up something that doesn't make it sound like it is him, because after all it really isn't, you just don't like him and that will happen many times through your life, not everyone is meant for everyone. Good luck!
2006-12-14 10:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by tdev4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, its ok you act like this guy is the only one in your world. your not being picky cause you like who you like theres no problem with that. the best thing to do is say its over. yea its going to be fu** up but your doing something you dont want to and the longer you wait to brake up with him the more pain he is going to be in. trust me ive been in that problem
2006-12-14 10:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you didnt get to know him that well..you were just attracted to his looks. There is no way to get that feeling back unless you are truly in love. I think you need to think about it and ask yourself do you really like him? Or is it just his looks?
2006-12-14 09:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how you get to know people and what you are looking for...by going out with them and getting to know them. If he ain't want you looking for that is ok....just be as respectable as possible and let him know its not going to work out and you don't want to see him anymore.
2006-12-14 09:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by **sumluv** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, just dump him. This isn't a big decision, it's just a small part of an insignifigant time in your life. Get over it, move on, he will too.
2006-12-14 09:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself too busy for him and eventually he will catch on ! There are alot of fish in the sea honey!
2006-12-14 10:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make sure how you feel. if you decide your not happy with him then dump him its out of order if you string him along if you decide you want to stay with him then push all his bad points about him to the back of your head.
2006-12-14 09:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice but to be honest just tell him that you have no feelings for him and that you don't want to lead him on that you do
2006-12-14 10:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by earl_sykes_101@hotmail.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend, you cannot pretend something you do not feel, and it is not fair...Let him know up front so he does not get the wrong idea....
2006-12-14 09:59:51 · answer #11 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋