I'm naturally shy and need your help on tips for me to approach this girl.
2006-12-14 09:52:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it likely she will reject me if I act nice, she is shy and i think she's single.
2006-12-14 09:53:19 · update #1
just man up and talk to her. i used to be shy too but it got me nowhere. be open and just make small talk. just be nice and see whats shes into. ask what shes up to this weekend, maybe see if she wants to see a movie?
2006-12-14 09:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a comment or say something positive about what she's reading, wearing, driving, whatever. Use that as an icebreaker - it's pretty low key. Don't be a creep about it. Don't be too up front - it'll come off badly if you are naturally shy. I'm shy too but this seems to work for me.
2006-12-14 09:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of telling if she will reject you.
Look at this as a postive experience. Either she says yes and you go out and all is lovely. Or, she says no, and you gain confidence from the fact that you approached a girl you like - and it will be easier to approach the next one - count it as practice :)
Good luck!
2006-12-14 09:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, she is shy, well, that's kind of hard, but it's still possible, so here is what you're gonna do. First talk to her, make her more comfortable around you, so it will be easy later on. Second after making her comfortable, it's time to act a bit serious, you know, joke with her, bump into her, given her signs that you like her. Third it's time to ask her on a date, but remember to wait for the perfect time, then hit the jackpot, I know you will get her, I wish you luck. Hope it works out.
2006-12-14 09:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah one of the hardest things. Just think of her as one of the guys. and practice first talk to every other girl in the room first so you will be comfortable with it. Plus she will think you popular because you talked to every body else. The go up to her and be like hey I (your name here) if you want bring this on a note card and read it verbatim and make a joke out of it. If she already knows your name ACCUSE, Accuse, accuse. Go up to her and be like "So don't you ever talk to any body. Does my good look make you nervous" and of course she will say no unless your brad pitt. then you can say "then was the problem." Just bust her chops and treat her like a guy. Soon enough she will be a friend and we all know how Friends end up. And if you don't then you are to young to worry about this.
2006-12-14 10:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is try, and all she can do is say "no". If she does say no, just consider it a learning experience. Don't be like me, and not learn how to deal with rejection until I'm almost 35. Sure it will hurt your ego, but it also builds alot of character. And who knows, she may not even say "no". Good Luck.
2006-12-14 09:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Society Dweller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to examine books of super human beings and comprehend the way suffering exists in international what's powerful and undesirable.do deeds which cut back sufferings of something then you definately would be a motivation. ahimso paromo dharma. non voilence is ultimate prepare in existence. - mahatma gandhi
2016-10-05 07:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r scared she will reject you,dont,just b yourself,go 2 her str8 up,and tell her u would like 2 b friends or more.tell her how u really feel.but if u get rejected,thats life,it hits hard sometimes,but u just got 2 b strong.NEVER B AFRAID 2 GO 4 WHAT U WANT.u may not get it every time but u never know if you dont try...go get her and b confident........
2006-12-14 10:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by richard c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man just be your self. if she cant except you for who you are then she is not worth the time. be your self!!! if she reject you then move on cause there are a billion other women out there and some will take you as you are. i cant tell you any more then to just start a conversation and be your self!!!!!!! good luck man...
2006-12-14 09:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident and be yourself buddy. you'll do fine. maybe she's shy too and maybe she likes to talk to you as well. Just put your chin up and walk up to her with confident but be respectful not cocky and dress to impress and talk to her. If she turned you down then o well there are plenty other woman out there besides her, just be yourself besides one way to find out if she is interested in you or not, right? just go for it Tiger... lol
2006-12-14 09:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋