What is he trying to say?

Question

We broke up becuase we could never hang out, so I was sad, and a week later from not talking to him, and moving on, he starts to talk to me online, and before i signed off he goes "still love you" then the day after that in the halls, he grabs me and gives me hugs then walks away, and today we were walking opposite ways, and he puts his arm out, curls it around my hips, then pulls me in and walkes close with me, what the hell? he never did that when we were going out, so what could he be trying to say?

Answer 1

l think hes playing games wit u he wants to see if he can have u anytime he wants and then toss u away its all bout control he wants to control u but not b wit u leave him u deserve better the more u stay and play his games the less chance u have of meeting the right person no-one should settle less then top shelf and he ain't top shelf

Answer 2

He may want to get back with u.
Matbe he really loves u and realizes his mistake. It's upto u whether to decide or not.
If u have already moved on. Then u gotta tell him that.

If u have not; then ask him directly what he has in mind. Does he want this or not. Tell him to be honest. Tell him that u were hurt and sad and don't want to be like that again.

So talk to him and decide. And stick to ur decision. Either move on or continue.

Answer 3

He likely thinks that he pissed you of the first time, and is simply testing the waters. He likely thinks he made a mistake before but really does not want to own up to it. He wants to get back together and pick up as if nothing happened.

Ask him point blank next time he advances "why are you so friendly now, when you wern't before" and accept his answer and proceed from that point on based on how truthful he is.

He does not own you nor do you him. This is an adult and reasonable position to take. I hope my opinion helps.

Answer 4

Im a little confused. But if he really cared about you he would'nt have broke up with you. He might just want to use you. You are ethier right for each other or you are not. If he says you are not his girl, then forget him. Go find your guy. He is out there for sure. Just always be yourself and never settle for someone who doesn't care for you as much as you do for them. Life is short. Don't waste time on people who play mind games.

Answer 5

Joni Mitchell had the perfect song for this, called "Big Yellow Taxi". The theme of it (and main tagline) is "You don't know what you've got 'til it's gone".

That's appropriate behavior if you are "going out", but not really appropriate with casual friends. If you were still his GF, would you want him doing that with other girls? Probably not.

I would ask him if this means that you are going out again. If not, then ask him to stop. You aren't "his" to handle like that.

Answer 6

Simple he wants the challenge of getting you back. He can't stand to lose. Hence the new attitude, the extra mile, and the extra cheese. Don't do it you will end up right back where you began. Trust me, I am a guy, and this is what we do!

Answer 7

Two things, he eighther misses you and wants to get back with you or his playing games. I think he wants to get back with you and misses being with you. The best thing to do is to sit down and talk to him face to face not online.

Answer 8

If you dont like him just ignore it and if you do then flirt back and maybe you guys will go out again cuz he really wants you back

Answer 9

if he didn't say anything about commitment then he looking for a fcuk buddy but still talk to him maybe he do want to go back out with you

Answer 10

sounds like he still likes you. if you like him back still, go with the flow, love on him too. but if you don't like him anymore, then get ignore it and have fun!