how do you know if your mate is cheating on you or not?
2006-12-14 09:24:32 · 37 answers · asked by sweetmotherofgod2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever lier you think i'm going to give you my address for you can mail it to me.lol
the way he act and the way he smell and time and if his dick (penis ) soft and stank and take it from there you no the rest
2006-12-14 09:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
OK, SORRY ABOUT THE CAPS, BUT MY GLASSE'S BROKE AND I'M WAITING TILL TOMORROW TO PICK MY NEW ONES UP. A FEW SIGNS IF YOUR MAN IS CHEATING! FIRST OF ALL IF YOU NOTICE HE BECOMES MORE DISTANT WITH YOU, LIKE NOT KISSING YOU THE WAY HE USUALLY DOES, IF YOU ARE A LEGAL AGE AND YOU ARE BOTH MAKING LOVE, FOR SOME REASON IN YOUR HEART, YOU CAN FEEL A DISTANCE....IT'S JUST DIFFERENT. IVE BEEN THERE. THINGS JUST DON'T SEEM THE SAME. IF HE'S NOT CALLING YOU OR COMING HOME AS OFTEN AS HE USE TOO.. MAKING UP EXCUSES FOR BEING LATE, OR NOT CALLING. ALSO, WHEN LOOKING INTO HIS EYES AND ASKING HIM IF HE'S CHEATING AND HE DOESN'T HAVE EYE CONTACT, HUMMMMM THAT'S NOT COOL. HOWEVER SOMETIMES IN A LONG RELATIONSHIP, THINGS DO CHANGE. LOVE MAKING MIGHT NOT BE AS OFTEN AS BEFORE, BUT THAT'S OK... HE OR YOU MIGHT WANT SEX LESS... DOESN'T MEAN THEY ARE CHEATING. IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU'VE BEEN TOGETHER?? YOU HAVE TO CONFRONT HIM AND ASK. DON'T BE AFRAID BECAUSE LIFE IS TO SHORT TO WASTE IT ON A PERSON THAT IS UNFAITHFUL.THERE WAS A TIME I THOUGHT MY EX WAS CHEATING, AND I DID SOMETHING I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD EVER DO. I FOLLOWED HIM, AND SURE ENOUGH HE WAS WITH ANOTHER WOMAN... I JUST KNEW IT. I FELT IT IN MY HEART. THERE WERE MANY DIFFERENT SIGNS, AND I SAW THEM ALL. HE STARTED LYING TO ME WHEN I KNEW THE TRUTH, HE WAS COMING HOME LATER AND LATER. HE WOULD ALWAYS CALL ME FROM WORK EVERYDAY, AND THE CALLS BECAME LESS AND LESS. BUT MOST IMPORTANT, IF YOU FEEL LIKE HE IS CHEATING THERE MUST BE A REASON. YOU WOULDN'T FEEL THIS IF SOMETHING WASN'T RIGHT. I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!
2006-12-14 09:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you notice that he is gone alot and spending less time with you. Or not wanting to be seen in public with you as much and when he is paying less attention to you physically. If you find out he is cheating on you let the other girl have him and be glad you are wasting your time with someone who cant be honest or keep it where it belongs and take the macys gift card and buy yourself something sexy and go out and have fun. Dont waste your time on losers and someone who cheats is definitly a looser.
2006-12-14 09:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that means he probably is. You can ask him about it. Its not like he will come right out and tell you but you can figure out a lot just by the way he answers. You can also do a little snooping of your own. Look at emails, bank statements, cell phone bills. Things like that. Act like you are going to work but don't really and spy on him for a day. Also you can talk to his ex girlfriend, because you know what they say "once a cheater always a cheater"
2006-12-14 09:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by memosgirl03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try asking him.
hire a private investigator.
do some snooping on your own like follow him when he thinks your busy doing something else, have your friends watch for him..etc.
& I dont need a $100 Macy's Gift Card... you just gave me 2 points... thats enough for me.
2006-12-14 09:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always trust you instincts. But some girls just don't have any faith in their men so maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to just ask him about it. Either that or you can spy on him which I think is a little freaky. If you ask him chances are he'll lie to you but at least he'll know your on to him. Like I said just trust your instincts...a womans Intuition is hardly ever wrong.
2006-12-14 09:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mate seems to need too much time on the computer and also they all of a sudden need to work alot of overtime. It would also show in their reluctance to have sexual relations with their mate. I would also notice a difference in her attitude towards me.
2006-12-14 09:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by supressdesires 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for signs in the way he treats you...if he starts getting irritable or just plain mean...if he's not putting as much romance into your relationship...if he's staying at work/wherever he says he's going late...if when you offer to go somewhere for him or with him, he says NO!...then he may be cheating. get a girlfriend he doesn't know to follow him in these situations...she can get all the information you need.
2006-12-14 09:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is if you have to ask, then he or she probably is cheating on you. Even if they are not cheating then let then go because you trust him. By the way, donate the gift card to charity... Please no one give your address on this site!
NEVER EVER.....
2006-12-14 09:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he seems more affectionate than usual, or adversely, if he seems more belligerent for no apparent reason, that's a good sign that he may have someone on the side. Best wishes.
2006-12-14 09:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Mojo Rising 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my own gut feelings since they proved to be correct the first time. If you really feel like it's happening, I betcha it is! You can always hire a private investigator to find out. Or if you're cheap, make some phone calls or follow him yourself to check out his stories. If he says he's working late, call work and check. If he says he's going somewhere specific, follow and make sure.
2006-12-14 09:29:25 · answer #11 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋