I’ve been dating this guy for a couple of months and he didn’t invite me to his company party. I would think he is serious about our relationship. Should I read too much into this? What do you guys think about this? I am really upset about this.
2006-12-14 09:23:27 · 11 answers · asked by jenniecraig1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is my boyfriend and i believe spouse and significant others are allowed. he didn't even bother to ask if i iwanted to go. he lied to me that he had other engagements and later on i found out it was the party
2006-12-14 09:40:44 · update #1
I wouldn't worry about it much, company holiday parties can be rather boring. Be thankful he didn't ask you to go!
2006-12-14 09:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by noroomnhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you guys just been dating or are you bf and gf? If he is allowed to bring a date and he didnt invite, then he probably has a fling at the office with someone. The company I'm working for doesnt allow dates to the parties because of a bad experience they had with some guys floozy girlfriend and too much alcohol. So find be sure to find out the reason.
2006-12-14 09:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of months is not long enough for this "new" man in your life to "introduce" you to his co-workers. There may also be a "restriction", at his work, as to "who" you may bring. Some companies no longer have the wife's/husbands/partners/etc, only "staff". The costs are unbelievable. There may also be the probability that your "new" bow had to buy a ticket for this Christmas Diner, and that would have been before he started dating you. So calm down, be patient, if not - you may find yourself "alone" for New Year's Eve!Don't be possessive.
2006-12-14 09:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so sensitive --It is in fact a company party --and I take it you don't work there--so --who cares--my husband (yes husband) goes and I think nothing about it --a bunch of people who work together talking about the only thing they have in common (work) woohoo!!! It means nothing that he didn't invite you--Now if it were say a party at a friends home and he choose not to take you?? I would be finding out whats up with that!!
2006-12-14 09:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 05:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Joanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a guy but i now alot about them he did not invite you because he donot want you to go to party you think he is serious about you and the relationship the point of the matter he is not serious at all two options i will gave you to play him or move on .
2006-12-14 09:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweeet anastacia from trinidad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either cant bring anyone or maybe he feels its too early in the relationship. The reasons why I haven’t taken someone to my x-mas parties has been that I either wasn’t that into them or thought they would embarrass me.
2006-12-14 09:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't allowed to bring a guest...or its only people who work there...or only married couples?
If not, then you're a booty call I guess. Or he just considers you a date and not a significant other.
2006-12-14 09:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thought u may not wanted to come to the party.
2006-12-14 09:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means he didnt want you at the party!
2006-12-14 09:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋