Hey,
there's this girl that I'm really attracted to and I know she feels the same way about me. The getting jealous if I'm talking or dancing with other girls, the locked stares while on the other side of the room, the keen interest in what I'm doing etc... She's really beautiful and seems to be a mature woman - which is a rarety to find. Thing is it's not that I don't want to talk to her, but several people have told me that she is married. The last time we saw each other she tried so hard to get me to come over , and I stood my ground - I didn't go introduce myself and talk to her. For someone who I bearly know we're so attracted to each other, people even notice !! It's really hot - I want her. But I don't think I should even say hi to her if she is taken cause I know she wants more. I don't think girls look at people that way and do these things if they want friendship. I think it may open up a whole can of worms. Should I talk to her?I like her so much?I can't stop think of her
2006-12-14 08:35:55 · 14 answers · asked by Piampri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You haven't confirmed anything regarding her being married. Maybe talk to her and find out. If she is, then step back, if not, then you have the green light. You have nothing to lose.
2006-12-14 08:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do. Go talk to her. One of the things that you ask her is, 'I'm told you are married, are you?" If the answer is yes, then you can walk away or stay and talk and tell her that because she is married there can be nothing more than friendship between you.
If she is not married, then when you find a convenient time you find the friend who said she was married an kick them in the shins for telling you lies.
2006-12-14 16:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Costy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that this person is married, do not go there!! I feel it is ok to talk to her as a friend but nothing else. If she is unhappy in her marriage and seeking out other men, you do not want to be involved in a situation like that. Single women are the best ones. Think about it.......do you really need or want all that baggage? If she was single and not attached to anyone else, I would say go for it. If she is married, stay away, her other man may be really big.
2006-12-14 16:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you should ask her if she is married. What if other people (especially other women) are just jealous because they see that you and her are attracted to eachother, so they made up the 'She's married' lie? Ask her first if she is married...and then if she is, move on, but go straight to the source and ask HER first, not anyone else.
2006-12-14 16:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by ashleyrt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should talk to her and find out for sure if she's married. If she is, avoid her because breaking up a marriage is wrong and if she'd cheat on him she'd cheat on you if someone else came along.
2006-12-14 16:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Talk to her! Get it out of your system---BUT, if she is married just leave her alone! Walk away! DO NOT get involved! You'll only get hurt. She won't leave her husband for you. If she is married, and states she'll leave him, let her leave him first for herself! NOT for you! Plus, if she is married and leaves him for you, will you ever trust her??????????? Not worth finding out! Find a beautiful, smart, SINGLE woman to be with.
2006-12-14 16:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by cairo2746 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and find out if she is. If she is just tell that she is hot but you do not believe in cheating so find you when she seperates.
2006-12-14 16:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called LUST thats is all that is between yall....if you sleep with her and shes married she will not continue a relationship with you ...you will only be a late night creep to her when she needs some and her husband isnt giving it to her
2006-12-14 16:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by isis_nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out if she's married, then go from there.
2006-12-14 16:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont mess with married chicks...bad bad bad idea!
2006-12-14 16:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋