we do live far away from each other..
2006-12-14 08:27:40 · 31 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if you don't mind sharing! From what it sounds like this is just not working out, which is why he's stepping out on you, he should have just broke it off if that was the case instead of cheating-that's a cowardly thing to do. Sweetheart you deserve better, because I'm sure it's been hard on you too but you remained faithful, so this was very unfair to you! What you should do is just move on, I'm sure there are plenty of nice guys that are a little closer to home, that will respect the bountries of your relationship and treat you like you deseve to be treated!
2006-12-14 08:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you would like to be wondering about what he is doing 24/7, I say go for it!
Seriously, though, it takes a lot of strength, honesty, and trust to have a long distance relationship. It might be best to let this one go for the time being - the boyfriend/girlfriend part, and learn just to be friends. Give him some space and time... let him see other people (and you see other people too), and see what the future brings. If there is a time that you can be together in the future, see if you would still like to be with him, and him with you, and move on from there one day at a time. I know that my advice might sound like the last thing in the world that you would want to do, but it seems like you are young and you are being hurt by what he is doing.
2006-12-14 08:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying here in my country I would just translate it " If the cat is away the mouse would come out and play". It basically saying that upon someone else's absence one could not help himself to be tempted in doing something that is wrong... distance gives another problem if that guy truly loves you he would remain faithful no matter what distance no matter how long your not together and if he keeps on cheating on you it only means he doesn't love you... set him free you deserve better ^^,
2006-12-14 08:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by (,") Verns (",) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you blind or just stupid,hell yes you should leave him especially if you caught him twice ,how sure are you he does not have a girl where he lives,wake up and realise hes playing you .Dump him and find someone with the same values and commitment as you.
2006-12-14 08:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once is bad enough, but TWICE?
That's a "NO BRAINER". HELL NO, Don't give him the chance to do it again. Find somebody that lives closer to you or somebody that you CAN trust. It is obvious that you can't trust this guy. If he did it TWICE he will do it a THIRD TIME, and a FOURTH, and so on.
2006-12-14 08:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question is do you love him? If so let your heart be the guide but remember everything he's put you through and think about how your life would be with him. If in the end you think everything will be fine and dandy stay with but if not let him go.
2006-12-14 08:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Between Times 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you do live far away that he tries to get away with it.Relationships are built on trust. Get him to send you something really nice for Christmas then kick him to the curb.
2006-12-14 08:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it doesn't matter HOW far away you guys are from each other. If he's tried to cheat on you TWICE then dump his sorry ***. Then go out and find someone who WON'T cheat on you.
Hope this helps!!!
~Snow Angel~
2006-12-14 08:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by randi. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!!! long distance relationship's usually dont work, find someone else who is going to treat u right and who not going to cheat on u. if u caught him not once but twice!! u need to leave him!!! WAKE UP
2006-12-14 08:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would probably be better off emotionally if you dump him. If you stay together you will constantly be wondering if he is being faithful. That is to much stress to make him worth the effort.
2006-12-14 08:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋