my son is 8 and he lets this other small boy push him around at school.he has pushed him into a wall and my son doesnt want to defend hisself, what should i do?
2006-12-14 08:25:57 · 10 answers · asked by atbkkj 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Going to the school and talking to a boy or maybe even a principal will not do any good i think. İt may help for this case but for long turn this is a very very false thing to do. believe me i have had some experience in those things. İnstead try to encourage him to cope with his problems alone. I mean that this is just the beginning of your son's life and in future he will have much more problems to solve and you may not be there to fuss over him that time. The idea of taking him to some kind of fight classes seems all right. You should understand that this is not just about pushing. this is about defending himself generally. you and your son should find the solution of the problem together. Try to find out why he does not want to defend himself. Therefore I send my best wishes for u both.
2006-12-14 08:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In this day an age it's hard for kids to defend themselfs. I have three boys and have tought them to defend themselfs and sometimes it helps but sometimes it makes it worse. Yes i feel that he should learn to defend himself but teach him the right way. If your son dosen't learn to defend himself he will be known as the underdog and all the so called (bullys) will pick on him. If you would like to talk more about this I will try and help as much as i can my boys are know 21, 16, 14. you can email me at
v06ginny@yahoo.com
2006-12-14 10:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by ginny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enroll your son in a martial arts class.
2006-12-14 08:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe sign him up in some Asian fighting form classes. Not to beat the children up (they actually teach you NOT to use it for violence) but to build up his self esteem. I've seen this work for children who are victims of bullies.
2006-12-14 08:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Buttons 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u can meet his school teacher ...tell her his problem...she will handle it ask your son the name of that boy then notify his name 2 school teacher ,she will solve ur problem....& do 1 thing ask ur son to tell teacher himself if he is having some problem with other boys...this will be good 4 him in future..
2006-12-14 10:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the principal w/your son and tell him the situation
and if the prinicpal should stop it
or you could just go up to the lil brat that keeps pushing him around and knock the **** out of him
2006-12-14 08:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like bottons answer. But would love it if you could get a way with kicking the @#$@ out of the other kid!
2006-12-14 08:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to defence classes that will help build his self esteem.
2006-12-14 10:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your son to go to his teacher,if she does nothing go to principal,also you need to teach your son to stick up for himself,
2006-12-14 08:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by boozer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him get his butt kicked. He'll learn to defend himself.
2006-12-14 08:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋