ok so i have this friend and i broke up with my first bf and love about a month ago n my friend is always talkin bout how were bestfriend and im like i donno cus i just known her this year now she says she is in love with like 50 guys plus my ex and she knows i still love him yet she wants to date him wat do i do??
2006-12-14 08:24:16 · 40 answers · asked by Mz.Myunique 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you shouldn't have to get involved what is your friend dicision coz you already break up to you ex bf so that means your ex is available now. Second just move on, you still young and you still can find better than him (like me hahahhaha). And third is she is not a good friend to you she should not take it whatever you left over means your ex. Both of them are dump em.
2006-12-14 08:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by luvu4ever14344 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all we can't always choose who we fall in love with however, 50 guys? Come on, do you think she really knows the difference between lust and love? I doubt it that she does at this point in her life she is not truly looking for someone to love or to love her because you first have to love yourself. Im not judging her by any means because too each is their own but I would put some thought into that one. About her being your best friend, well I don't think anyone can answer that one except for you being that you know her on a personal level however, I am unsure that I would want to bring anyone I had interest in around her for the fear that she may wind up with him on the couch making out with him while you were gathering drinks for the three of you. Goodluck with this and I am so thankful for the friends I have.
2006-12-14 08:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mariachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no that is not a friend. Is she responsible for yall breakup? Hold it!!!! Let me change that....b/f you and your boyfriend broke up..were you discussin things about him to her? If so, she is the main one held responsible for your breakup so she can move in. Honey, FROM EXperience, NEVER EVER tell another woman about your man. I have had my heart broken so many times for that. Some women are bad about moving you out while they move in. I hate that you are going through that two faced friendship thing but women are hard to trust when you have a lil something more than what they have. TRUST!!!!I say to drop her quick fast and in a hurry b/f you get another man. It is obvious that she can't be trusted so get away quickly!!!! Good Luck.
2006-12-14 08:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her even if there weren't 50 other guys that she likes at this point that she is stepping on your toes. He is off limits for now and she should respect that as a friend or best friend for that matter. It is not right and if she respects you then great if not then you deserve better.
2006-12-14 08:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would it be possible for her to be your best friend. Best friends don't disrespect each other. She knows you still have feelings for him. A lot of relationships break up and then get back together. She has no respect for herself to tell you she wants to date him. If she is interested in him, she should keep that thought to herself out of respect for you. She is no friend, much less a best friend. Get rid of her before she cause you some problems. Good luck to you.
2006-12-14 08:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her my best friend anymore. Best friends just don't do that, especially if she knew you loved the guy. My best friend would never do that to me. Some girls are stupid and just pretend to be best friends. Actions speak louder than words, and her actions show that she'd steal the shirt off your back if she weren't wearing it. Dump her as a friend, and let her know why so that if she isn't doing it on purpose, she is sure she won't do it to her next "best friend."
2006-12-14 08:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that you just need to live your life and let her live hers. She obviously is just out to get alot of attention so don't give it to her. Hang out with her, but also hang out with other people as well so that you are interacting with lots of people and not just her. Ignore what she is saying about all the guys she is supposedly in love with. She may just be saying that about your ex to get a rise out of you. She may "love" all these guys but how many of them actually love her in return and how many are just using her. Just live your own life and don't worry about anyone else's. She is definitely not your best friend.
2006-12-14 08:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine tends to view things that way too... It would appear she doesn't think what you and your ex had was very serious, and that she thinks you've already moved on. Pull her aside and explain to her that it was big to you, you haven't moved on, and you'd really appreciate her appreciation for the matter. If she won't give it, she's not your friend.
2006-12-14 08:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by kytigirl200 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should respect your decision for her not to date your ex. Unless she professes she is madly in love with him and he is the one for her, she should drop it. If she is just playing the field then don't mess with friends ex's. If she doesn't care what you think then she is not a best friend. Your feelings should mean more than a fling for her.
2006-12-14 08:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok she's in love with 50 plus your ex. is she serious! if she' s truly your friend no she should not date your ex especially when you guys just broke up.
2006-12-14 08:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋