My boyfriend and I decided to take a break because I wasn't sure about my feelings for him. I just didn't know if I was with him because I loved him or just because I liked the fact that every girl wanted him and he was mine. Anyway while we were on a break lots of girls were interested in him. I got jealous but I wasn't sure if I wanted to get back together with him. He on the other hand still loves me and isn't gonna go out with anyone until I say it's over between us. The problem is I don't know how I feel I mean I don't really want to get back together with him but I hate seeing him with other girls. I know this is really selfish of me but I'm so confused. What's the matter with me? Do I love him or do I just want to own him?
2006-12-14 08:23:00 · 9 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to make a decision. Essentially you're playing with him by leaving him on the hook.
Maybe you need a break, maybe you need to see other people to figure it all out.
So what if other girls like him. We all want to have what other people want.
In my opinion from what you've wrote, you don't love him. You just like the fact that you're with someone that is desired. Let him go.
2006-12-14 08:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll give it to you straight.
You are immature and selfish.
You don't want him but don't want anyone else to have him. Behaving like that is not the sign of someone in love, it is the sign of someone who is more concerned with their own status and desires than the welfare of someone else.
Do this guy a favor and let him go. Then spend your boyfriend time that is now free working on your own personality issues.
2006-12-14 16:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you don't want him and you don't want him to get on with his life until you're getting on with your's with someone else. Sounds to me like you're really selfish. =0/
2006-12-14 16:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by etngapech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just want to own him. But follow your heart.
2006-12-14 16:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by DJ thunderdust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much sounds like he's a piece of prime real estate to you. let him go..and let him be happy with someone who wants him for him.
2006-12-14 16:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that means that you're not really into him. but follow your heart. do what you gotta do and do what makes you happy and feel right.
2006-12-14 16:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by JAZZiEEBOO♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that you love him that much
but you might.
why don't you ask yourself?
2006-12-14 16:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by <3 Lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can do better than you.
2006-12-14 16:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not that into him.
2006-12-14 16:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋