I like this guy, and I THINK he likes me back, but he's a little odd lol.. I hope I didn't make him give up by reacting 'the wrong way' to his actions. He does like really cool but really random dances and is like really funny, but sometimes I'm like wtf... I still like him. My reaction might put HIM off and think I'm not interested... what are you guys like?
2006-12-14 08:20:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my names allie not alex lol
2006-12-14 08:31:27 · update #1
You might have scared him off a bit but if you show him that you like him still, he should come around.
2006-12-14 08:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by soulfuljim1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Understand that us guys pretty much need a ladies "tells" to determine whether you're interested in us. Some guys, don't pay attention at all and are oblivious to everything. Due to the fear of rejection that's in all of us, we're more sensitive to "tells" of disinterest versus ones of interest.
If you gave off a vibe or reaction of disinterest, then more than likely he would have read it that way. If he's a decent guy, he's probably not the type to keep trying and being labeled as a stalker.
If you are interested in him, then give him some signs, he'll come back around.
2006-12-14 16:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by -J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'm not a guy but from what I understand guys like a challenge... If you're that worried about what you said about his dancing then apologize or show some interest and ask him how he does that move, etc?
2006-12-14 16:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - a lot of men enjoy the chase and are very tenacious in trying to get their girl. The only reason a man gives up on a girl is if he detects that she really is not interested.
2006-12-14 16:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of the time I give up when I see a girl I like talking to another guy, because I think "Oh, she probably already likes him, I'm too late."
It's a bad problem. :-/
2006-12-14 16:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by The Real Deal. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-12-14 16:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt a little. Most guys dont get enough attention and feel flattered. If he likes you and has some balls he'll ask you out.
2006-12-14 16:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
every person will give up if he sees that there is no hope at all in the actions of the other person, not just guys!
2006-12-14 16:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him then, make funny faces back. If someone says you look dumb doing it tell them its more fun then trying to make fun of someone and it doesnt make you look like a ***** so youd rather be you then her.
2006-12-14 16:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how we feel at the time. some times it is fun to try harder to get the girl other times just don't care to chase her. You can always get our interest back though if we lose it.
2006-12-14 16:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋