Ok I'm sure this has been asked before but I can't really find anyway that would work for me. Theres a girl that I really like and I think she likes me too and she's shy and I also am in a sense. I need to know a way to ask her out without being scared to death about doing it. Like anyway to flirt with her that would be easy for some one who has never really flirted before. Or something like a conversation starter, or just simply a good way to ask her out. I know this might look stupid to some people, but it would meen alot to me if some one could give me some advice because god knows I wont be able to figure anything out on my own.
2006-12-14 08:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 16 as is she. We have talked on several occasions, I have found that she stares at me in classes, and well I don't really know much about what she likes other than the fact she likes tennis.
2006-12-14 08:24:10 · update #1
Go up and ask her.
If you're going to be shy about it, you may just turn her off. Just go up to her and start talking. after a short while, say something like, "I got to go now, but i want to continue this conversation later. How about tonight at (insert name of place here). I could pick you up."
Being shy is all well and good. After a while the shyness starts to look stupid.
2006-12-14 08:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. You will never know if she likes you for sure unless you do. Do you have anything in common that you can start a conversation about? If you do, just start talking about that and work your way into asking her out. If you have some common things to talk about you won't be so nervous about asking her out.
2006-12-14 08:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. Whats the problem? ASK HER! That's all there is to it. I know how hard it is, believe me, but you have to realize that its like doing anything else, running a race, giving a speech, going to a job interview; ONCE YOU START IT YOU WON'T FEEL NERVOUS ANYMORE. Be humorous, make her laugh; it will lighten the mood and make it easier, and then ask. Don't even think about it beforehand, just ask.
Good Luck.
2006-12-14 09:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by mygosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her like you normally would talk to her, just make it comfortable and then say something like "we should hang out some time" if she responds with "YEA !" then your good to go man!! After that then set the specific time..... BUT if she hesitates then dont push it and make it akward.
if she always has an excuse, or is vauge about making plans, just puts it off or says "i'm busy that night," and then doesn't offer another time that would work for her, she's probably trying to give you a hint so don't push it too hard.
2006-12-14 08:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by heather. just heather. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you might have to be more specific with your question, ie.....give more details such as if you spoke with her before, how old are you two, where are you guys (school, work)....ext
2006-12-14 08:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋