i have feelings for a guy..sometimes he treats me so nice but sometimes he is cold to me..i told myself lots of time: i should give up him...
but honestly i still have a slim hope to have him..but just now i knocked on his door and his cold attitude stabbed my heart..i know for the girl you dont like, you are always busy and always have things to deal with..
so this time, i clearly understand that he doesnt like me at all,..i really need to give it up although i feel heartbroken..
i cant fool myself anymore..please help me to move on..plz help me to abstract my attention from him...i will try hard to do that
2006-12-14 07:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by milk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all~!!
i really want to find someone and cry on her/his shoulder..this is the first time that i have feelings for a guy..
i think i should avoid him for a while until i can treat him only as a friend..but the point is...we live in the same floor..the more i dont want to meet him..the more i can bump into him in elevator..the caferia..the hallway..
i dont want to give myself a little bit hope for it..this time i should cut off all connection with him completely..
2006-12-14 08:18:47 · update #1
Wait, so what happened at his door?
2006-12-14 08:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by attn deficiency. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you have to force yourself to move on. It's hard but your going to have to allow yourself to deal with the pain. Remember even though it's hard right now in time you will get past this. The sooner you let go the sooner the healing process can begin. Tell yourself you ARE worth much better because you are. He doesn't deserve you. You need someone who can appreciate you and respect you always and then he will be worth your precious time. Please don't ever settle for anything less than what you are worth. Now is a good time to focus on all the people around you who truly love you and care for you, they would really want that from you.
2006-12-14 16:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, thats one of the worst feelings. Yeah its gonna be really hard moving on but i have faith in you. Someday that guy will wake up and realize what he is missing out. So really its his loss. Find yourself a good man and go out and have fun!
2006-12-14 16:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by BingDung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this...you don't deserve him...and someone who is acting so cold... my advice would be ...cry, feel the pain....but not too long...face with your pain...and move on...there are a lot of other nice guys....just be patient.
take care.
2006-12-14 16:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be better to not talk or look at him for a while, stay away and try to forget him. Move on it's better for you. Rejection is very hard.
2006-12-14 16:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tiny little hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sorry but you do need to move on. If he can't be consistently nice to you then the chemistry isn't there hon. Move on, don't contact or talk to him.
2006-12-14 16:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok get over him cuz this luv thing wont last forever.....k so he doesnt care if he hurts u wich he clearly has then leave him....hes a jerk...so good luck
2006-12-14 16:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD LET A GUY SEE ME PEE BEFORE I WOULD LET HIM SEE ME HEARTBROKEN. BE STRONG, BE GOOD TO YOURSELF AND MOVE ON. HIS COLD TREATMENT WILL SOMEDAY BE ONLY A MEMORY.
2006-12-14 16:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋